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Hello,
Second specific senario in a week. I was at a big dance party that was largely social circle (I know about half the people there, and those I don't know are friends of friends). I am terrible at this game right now. However, this one chick on the dance floor reels me in and we dance, it is electric, and I end by kissing her. She loves it and kisses me back. Then we go hang at out at the sofas, talk and make out. She is cool with a bit of that, but is nervous about going too far as all her co-workers are around her. I move her once or twice, but haven't figured out how to pull her in this setting yet as she makes a big deal about being with friends and she is only 17 (don't worry legal age is 16 here) and I am about 9 years older. (I know I could ask her to come home with me, but she might not want to been seen doing that in front of her group?). Anyway, I grab her number (somehow manage to loose it, but I know where she works), but giving it to me she tells me there needs to be boundaries due to our age gap, and that we should not do you know what (sex) (I think the shit test?).
My friend thinks that I should have said "fine if you just want to be friends we can do that" and make to walk away. I was thinking about saying "we should not let age get in the way of the incredible connection we had", in as sexy a way as possible. Of course, I failed it at the time and just said "ok", or "that makes sense" or something like that.
Second specific senario in a week. I was at a big dance party that was largely social circle (I know about half the people there, and those I don't know are friends of friends). I am terrible at this game right now. However, this one chick on the dance floor reels me in and we dance, it is electric, and I end by kissing her. She loves it and kisses me back. Then we go hang at out at the sofas, talk and make out. She is cool with a bit of that, but is nervous about going too far as all her co-workers are around her. I move her once or twice, but haven't figured out how to pull her in this setting yet as she makes a big deal about being with friends and she is only 17 (don't worry legal age is 16 here) and I am about 9 years older. (I know I could ask her to come home with me, but she might not want to been seen doing that in front of her group?). Anyway, I grab her number (somehow manage to loose it, but I know where she works), but giving it to me she tells me there needs to be boundaries due to our age gap, and that we should not do you know what (sex) (I think the shit test?).
My friend thinks that I should have said "fine if you just want to be friends we can do that" and make to walk away. I was thinking about saying "we should not let age get in the way of the incredible connection we had", in as sexy a way as possible. Of course, I failed it at the time and just said "ok", or "that makes sense" or something like that.