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How do I move the interaction towards the date over text if the girl takes forever to reply?

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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This question is not for this specific interaction but in general as well

I met this super-cute chic at a park and had an elaborate conversation for over an hour. I tried insta-date and she didn't agree since she said she wanted to chill in the park and instead offered her number. I made it clear that its for arranging a date. She's a student and works part-time and so she's super busy and I understand that.
However, she takes forever to respond. So, this is how the conversation looks so far:

Me: Cool meeting you Miss Happy ;) Shawn
(after 2 hours - 5:30PM Saturday)

She: Nice meeting you too :) Mel
(Sunday midnight/Monday morning 12:05 AM)

Me: How's your Monday going? Working hard or hardly working?
(Monday afternoon - 12:40 PM)

@Skills I'm following your texting structure of Open > Vibe > Soft Close > Hard Close


However, at this rate I wonder how I can accelerate my interaction towards the date? Also, what's a good time-frame to aim at from the time I get the number to getting her out on a date? I couldn't find anything related to this in your threads
 
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the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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