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How do I respond to, "are you flirting with me?"

Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey Belmo!

Hope your having a good day,

It depends what kind of frame you want to set. Just in case your new, a frame is like a social context in which the conversation takes place in

So you have two frame options:

1. Yes, I am flirting with you (courtship frame)

2. No, we’re just friends (platonic frame)

If your on here, you probably want to fuck her brains out, so to own that your attracted to her you would pick option 1.

If you go for option 2 but continue to flirt with her (a lot of guys do this) you are creating a third frame: 3. I like you but I’m not balls enough to go out and say it, so you shouldn’t take me seriously

I know I could of just said yes, but I wanted to explain how frames work so you can start applying them to every interaction with a girl

hope this helps,

Biggus
 

Regal Tiger

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I like @Gladiator response up above, but whenever I get accused of doing something my go-to is

Who, me!? I would nEvEr... get caught

It's hard to type out, but it's over the top and that little "get caught" at the end is kind of half-whispered after a short little pause. They always look at me and make a sound like "uh-huh" during the pause and then the "get caught" always catches them off-guard

And I usually raise my voice a little bit on the never part, again, hard to type out though. Almost like I'm jokingly incredulous, if that makes sense
 
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Ambiance

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That's for me to know, and you to dot dot dot...

(shamelessly stolen from Damon Salvatore. Girls eat this shit up.)
 
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