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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I have recently approached several sets in a bar. Contrary, to street game, there aren't that many single sets. You either approach a two set or multiple sets.

It seems that two sets are actually more difficult that multiple sets because of the isolation problem. It's difficult to make her ditch her friend for obvious social reasons. Therefore, most of the time I would took her phone number and set up a date another time. I don't think it's the optimal situation thought. Most of the time, the initial high emotions vibe calms down due to time passing and her returning to her regular life.

I know that one solution would be finding a wingman, and I'm already working on this.

But let's say we game solo.

Any creative ideas on how to isolate her? Few things which come to my mind:
1) use any opportunity when her friend goes to bathroom to escalate/state your intentions clearly
2) use non-verbals like stroking her leg with your leg underneath the table, discretely
3) text her immediately after they left, asking her to come back alone or going other place together
4) advanced sexual vibe, escalating sexual vibe emotionally and non-verbally and being polite but not very engaging with her friend, somehow 'forcing' her to leave, by making her feel like she is a fifth leg to the table.

Any other ideas?
 
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