Forum Feedback how do you delete a post/thread?
- Thread starter donjuan77
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No one is forcing you to be here. This is the LAST good forum on the web to talk about pickup and seduction that actually has people who know their shit. Show some respect.
but, you could kindly messag @Chase or another staff member and ask them for help.
I don't know about that.. seems like Chase and co want to indoctrinate you with their school of thought(like so many puas before him). I'm about free thought, so don't like people telling me how to think. And have no desire of becoming a parrot of some pua.
Also restricting me from deleting my posts and editing them after some time makes me not want to post.
Just fyi.
btw, I use the term "pua" loosely. I know a lot of guys that traffic in dating advice don't like the designation but it's more or less an accurate one.
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AFAIK it's done this way because guys will sometimes come back years later and try to delete all their posts for whatever reason, and it can ruin the structure of a lot of threads. Making it look like other guys are talking to themselves and bringing up topics out of nowhere.
Sometimes if there's a good reason to one-off remove something a mod will do that, but the general idea is that when you say something you've thought through it and decided to make it a part of the forum.
No one's indoctrinating you, you're free to disagree with anyone, and you have a lot of freedom in how you express yourself. But the focus has to be on seduction and relationships and improving your skills in that area. If you're here, it means that's an active part of your life that you are working on. It's not a place for guys who have given up on women or believe that seduction doesn't work, or that women only want men with <insert something I don't have and can't get>.
People should have that choice. People shouldnt be restricted from deleting posts THEY created, especially on sensitive subjects like seduction where it isn't uncommon for guys to change their tune later in their life for whatever reason. I can't count the number of times some pua has fallen off the face of the earth. At one point they were loud and proud only to remove all their content years later. Guys do that in this community, you know, and for good reason. Sleeping around with women isn't exactly pulitzer prize worthy, especially as they age and start families. You should respect peoples' privacy, over your company's needs.
It's just not cool man.
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The incessant complaining and argumentation is one thing, but this ceaseless 'uncharitable conclusion jumping' about the intentions of other people is one of the traits of autists (and you have said you may be on the spectrum... from what I have seen from your short time on these Boards, I would say you DEFINITELY are on the spectrum) I personally find extremely grating.
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It’s almost like as man you are responsible for your choices and actions or something.
crazy, I know…
just pls delete all my posts from the site. it is a big privacy concern for me. I was unaware that delete function was disabled. It was not made public to me. Thank you.
you guys are terrible. from publicly using my private information against me I clearly did not want made public(I deleted it for a reason) to literally preventing me from deleting posts I created to gas lighting me. I try to stand up for pick up people whenever the haters talk shit, but I'm starting to see what they mean. RESPECT PEOPLES FUCKING PRIVACY ASSHOLES!
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Chain of events:
All this stuff you are doing online that is frustrating and flummoxing everyone else is also coming through in your interactions with women.
I can say that without having seen a single field report from you, because I have seen lots of other autists, and these patterns recur again and again and again.
The ones that fix it are the ones who sit down with an open mind and ask, "All right. What behaviors am I engaging in, that I am not aware of, that are pushing other people away? What do I need to do to stop doing that and enjoy close and mutual connections?"
Based on how prickly, argumentative, and defensive you have been since you joined, I imagine you are not going to receive this advice right now.
But I want to throw it out there to stick in the back of your mind so you know you can fix it when you are ready.
The question you will need to ask yourself (and others), when you are ready for it, is "What am I doing that I am not aware I am doing that puts barriers between other people and myself? What can I do to tear those barriers down?"
That will be your great quest in life, once you take it up.
It will change your life if you undertake it with seriousness and an open mind.
It is going to be a lifelong quest, because there will always be things you are doing inadvertently that push other people away. But the more of them you learn and fix, the better things are going to get for you socially (and romantically).
Chase
- Guy joins forum
- Vents, complains, criticizes constantly
- People say they find this unpleasant
- Guy calls them "horrible" and says all the terrible things other random people say about them are true
All this stuff you are doing online that is frustrating and flummoxing everyone else is also coming through in your interactions with women.
I can say that without having seen a single field report from you, because I have seen lots of other autists, and these patterns recur again and again and again.
The ones that fix it are the ones who sit down with an open mind and ask, "All right. What behaviors am I engaging in, that I am not aware of, that are pushing other people away? What do I need to do to stop doing that and enjoy close and mutual connections?"
Based on how prickly, argumentative, and defensive you have been since you joined, I imagine you are not going to receive this advice right now.
But I want to throw it out there to stick in the back of your mind so you know you can fix it when you are ready.
The question you will need to ask yourself (and others), when you are ready for it, is "What am I doing that I am not aware I am doing that puts barriers between other people and myself? What can I do to tear those barriers down?"
That will be your great quest in life, once you take it up.
It will change your life if you undertake it with seriousness and an open mind.
It is going to be a lifelong quest, because there will always be things you are doing inadvertently that push other people away. But the more of them you learn and fix, the better things are going to get for you socially (and romantically).
Chase
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Maybe it was wrong of me to mention the post you deleted, but you came in being fairly blunt in your reply to one of my comments, claiming something that was clearly contradicted by your deleted post, so I felt like I should point it out.
The idea that you can just come on here, venting one day and acting like you know it all the next day, is not on.
Maybe this site is all about the kind of seduction that guys feel happy about and are comfortable with at any point in their life? If you can't face the prospect of your future wife or kids finding out something about you, maybe it's something you shouldn't be sharing online at all (or maybe even doing).
Besides, what you say here and the information you reveal is entirely up to you, there's no requirement to spill the beans on anything you don't want to.
Chase and the guys have built this place up, long before I got here, as a reference for guys to be able to come back years later, look up stuff, and learn everything about seduction that they want to. That's why organization and permanence matters, it's all part of a body of knowledge. Just because it'll probably never be mainstream doesn't mean it's a place for guys who are in the mood to do something they'll later regret.