How do you game a pornstar?

[heya]

Hey guys,

I've been lurking and learning for months but never made an account to discuss anything. However, a circumstance has popped up that I'd love to hear from the experts here on how they would approach this.

A pretty famous pornstar (500+M views on PH) is in town and paid to promote an event for a week. I didn't know much about her before learning that she was in town from other forums. After looking her up, I think I would enjoy taking her out for a drive.

How would you guys approach her knowing exactly where she will be? Talk to her while she is working and obliged to hang around? Or wait for her to end the day and risk her already having plans? How do I distinguish myself from the inevitable flood of people trying to get photos with her?

Thanks!

 

[HumanWhoLearns]

Uhh maybe get lucky (?) enough to meet one just going through her daily life and then treat her like you would any other woman you just met. They don't want to fuck fanboys, they want men they perceive as high value through their words, actions, and behaviors; just the same as any other woman I imagine.

In the situation you describe, she's the prize. You're just another person trying to get her attention and affection. Not worth it.

 

[Teevster]

1. Never acknowledge like she is a pornstar, never talk about it, never show fascination for it. treat her like any other girls - which is what she wants from guys who are not her clients or colleagues. This includes not meeting her in a context where her status of pornstar is valued and where she is in the spotlight. That means not meeting her at her events, not meeting her in a context where she get acknowledgement for her job.
2. And then seduce her like any other girls.

That's how I'd do it.

You can also use hardcore sexual frames with tons of authority (advanced sex talk) but I doubt you have that level to outframe a pornstar with sexual frame. Even I after 10+ years of using sex talk as a main tool to seduce girls struggle with escorts and so on (I do crack her frame, but it requires so much work).

So better avoiding that frame altogether. As they say, pick your battles wisely.

Best,
Teevster

 

[Zoro]

Been on a few dates with a pornstar. She’s just a girl. The above responses are spot on. As soon as she feels you are interested in her “pornstardom” I imagine your goose will be cooked and you’re thrown into the “just another fan” box.

best bet might be running into her at the grocery store or street totally outside of the porn part of her life.

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

Hey guys,

I've been lurking and learning for months but never made an account to discuss anything. However, a circumstance has popped up that I'd love to hear from the experts here on how they would approach this.

A pretty famous pornstar (500+M views on PH) is in town and paid to promote an event for a week. I didn't know much about her before learning that she was in town from other forums. After looking her up, I think I would enjoy taking her out for a drive.

How would you guys approach her knowing exactly where she will be? Talk to her while she is working and obliged to hang around? Or wait for her to end the day and risk her already having plans? How do I distinguish myself from the inevitable flood of people trying to get photos with her?

Thanks!

This is mission impossible if you think you're going to show up to her event and spit some game. Assuming you don't want to just pay her to make a scene with you...

She needs to see you in your element, not you stick out in hers.

She's gonna be there for a week. So either you're in tight with the local porn producers, or you have clout in the night club scene.

In either case, the hookup has to be a "win" for her, not just another notch.

 

[Skills]

This is mission impossible if you think you're going to show up to her event and spit some game. Assuming you don't want to just pay her to make a scene with you...

She needs to see you in your element, not you stick out in hers.

She's gonna be there for a week. So either you're in tight with the local porn producers, or you have clout in the night club scene.

In either case, the hookup has to be a "win" for her, not just another notch.

Correct unrealistic expectations.... specially for a newer guy...