How do you handle two sets in day game?

[Jan]

Most of my approaches during day game (mall game) are single sets.

They are quite simple to handle socially and if they hook, it's very easy to proceed to an instadate most of the time.

However, recently I got pickier about the quality of girls and I realized that I stroll around quite a lot without approaching that much. For that reason, I would like to expand my approaching range to two sets.

I've done this few times, and I immediately realized that I need to adjust my game plan.

It's almost impossible to isolate one girl from a set in a mall and invite her to an instadate. It's a very low risk strategy to try to make her ditch her friend.

Different, possible plans are:

1) Grab her phone number and set up a date later
2) Pull a threesome

Honestly speaking, I would much prefer to go for the second option when possible. I really hate text game, I'm impatient and same day lays seem like much more fun to me.

So my main question is: do you have any day game specific tips to pull threesomes in day game?

Recently, I approached these two chicks in the mall who just happened to be in town for the weekend. They stayed in nearby hotel and were planning to go party that evening. I took their phone number and they were texting me back in the evening. Unfortunately I was too tired to go out that evening. Also, I thought that I made a mistake and I should have tried to pull them from the mall in the afternoon. When I asked which hotel they stay, one of them replied: "A nearby hotel." I was to dumb to connect the dots at that time thought. Wow!

 

[Spyce D]

Willing to learn myself this too .

 

[Skjöldr]

It's rare that I ever approach two sets or group sets, especially when I'm in an area with a high volume of single hot girls.

I have many times approached a girl only to have 3-5 hotter girls walk past when I'm talking to her. Happens on instant dates too, I always joke that you will see the hottest girls while waiting for your date. Approach them at your own peril, I lost a date once because I approached a girl and she saw it.

This goes back to two sets. They are just lower odds, simple as. I don't want to end up in a situation where I approach two girls and then a hotter, higher odds girl walks past on her own. That's mainly why I don't do them: efficiency.

However, when I do, I make sure to involve the other girl in the conversation and keeping it light and flirty. Depending on the situation, I will also make it a quick number grab and try to set a date later.

When I asked which hotel they stay, one of them replied: "A nearby hotel." I was to dumb to connect the dots at that time thought. Wow!

Or maybe they were concerned about safety and wouldn't tell you specifically which hotel.

Recently, I approached these two chicks in the mall who just happened to be in town for the weekend. They stayed in nearby hotel and were planning to go party that evening. I took their phone number and they were texting me back in the evening. Unfortunately I was too tired to go out that evening.

Maybe they wanted you to entertain them, and your target had no intention of banging you. I have had situations like this too where a girl invites me to join her friend/friends somewhere and I haven't had a situation yet where I've joined them. I would rather go solo hunting. Could be wrong, but I have just never had a situation yet where I wanted to and ended up joining them. If she really wanted to see me, she would ditch her friend for me. You can say "It's now or never, you can always spend time with your friend, but you and I only have this opportunity now" or something, but not every girl wants a ONS.

 

[mist]

I take all their contact infos and may the best/most interested one win

try to focus in on the girl i want to really get hit with tech and eye contact is harder there.

maybe a covert qualifier or topic.

If you go this route though start with the girl most compliant. Even if you want another

One hiccup can shake this as women are intensely sensitive to how they each view you. Why it's fundamental not to have dramatic blowouts rejections or manic approaching in venues where everyone can see shit or worse hear it as well.

recently had it happen that one of the friends gets dry or ghosts and I end up with her friend.

Or one I really like many guys miss is many of these chicks aren't even that "great" of friends. Like they'll go out together etc and maybe like eachother, but it's not super deep - there is a lot of fun you can have with that as it's like you have lone wolves in a group set

 

[Skjöldr]

Like they'll go out together etc and maybe like eachother, but it's not super deep - there is a lot of fun you can have with that as it's like you have lone wolves in a group set

very true, I had a situation one month ago (tourists in transit) where we convinced the friend to go sightseeing alone and then me and the girl basically just went straight to my place, drank wine and had sex. Then we joined her friend later, did some sightseeing, had dinner and then they took a train together. I think the friend tried to hook up with me, if I was horny she was fuckable, but I didn't feel it.

Context: I approached the girl alone and only later found out she was looking for her friend in the mall. When we joined her friend she was already pretty sold on the idea. Maybe I should write out a quick LR....