How do you make her put down her phone in day game?

[Jan]

I had several situations during my recent day game escapades when hotties who I wanted to approach were on the phone, talking.

Honestly, the only way I can imagine myself making her to put down her phone is through a very strong vibe. This situation fits in my imagination, and I've done something similar. Not specifically making her put down her phone, but making her cancel uber ride which was pretty much there.

I have no verbal ideas how to do this, thought.

Any ideas?

 

[Skjöldr]

You just approach.
Sometimes they wave "fuck off" at you.
Sometimes they stop and pause their conversation.
Sometimes they say "one second" and wrap it up and let you speak.

If I'm feeling ballsy I tell them to hang up on the phone because I need to tell her something very important. Then I just tell her she looks hot and roll from there.

 

[Warped Mindless]

I will approach even of they are on the phone.

As skjoldr said, sometimes they arent going to pay attention to you and will carry on.

But, the more calibrated and interesting your approach, the better your fundamentals and looks, and (if possible), waiting until the time is “right” and you will have much better odds of her putting the phone down.

Have you ever heard of the OODA Loop?

Observe
Orient
Decide
Act

This is a process we go through thousands of times a day, often in milliseconds, that allows us to make decisions. I personally prefer my own version: REDI.

Read
Evaluate
Determine
implement

When you approach her brain is going to automatically “observe and read” the situation.

Shes on the phone and a homeless looking dude comes up out of no where and says something to her… what do you think her brain is going to observe/read about this?

“Pest! get away fast!”

Shes not putting the phone down.

Now she sees a dude dressed nice, well groomed, he catches he eye first and smiles, then he approaches. No go through what you believe her thought process in terms of Observe/reading is? Is she more likely to give him a second? Of course.

You approach, she tells her friend on the phone “hold on a second.” Now shes going to automatically orient/evaluate HOW you approached and WHAT you said.

Picture yourself sing for directions. “hey do you know where PLACE is?” She has evaluated that you want directions and she can be socially courteous and quickly give you directions and get back to her phone call.

Now instead picture that you asked her something that makes her intrigued or curious. “This is random but has anyone ever told you that you have interesting energy?”

She now gets to decide/determine her options. Because you intrigued her, shes often going to choose to follow up on that as opposed to getting back to her phone call if you simply asked for directions.

Then she acts/implements her decision by either going back to her phone or responding to you.
Do you think her mind is now on the phone call or did you lead her thoughts into an entirely new place?

 

[Skjöldr]

@Warped Mindless made a good point about waiting until the time is right. Like sometimes I might hover around a girl, same if I see her walking into a small shop, I will wait for her to come out. It sounds alot more stalkerish than it is. Sometimes after a few seconds or a minute the girl hangs up. Depends how long I want to wait on the girl. Sometimes if I wait a minute and she's still talking I'll just go for it.

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

if I see her walking into a small shop, I will wait for her to come out

I’ll just walk in with her

Is it more effective to wait though?

 

[Skjöldr]

I’ll just walk in with her

Is it more effective to wait though?

It all depends. Like I said, if it's a small shop I might wait, depending on the layout of the shop. Like if it's a small bookstore or vinyl shop etc. and I go in there and everybody is gonna start staring at us when I approach, it's not good. Too much pressure on the girl and me.

But if it's a big store like a supermarket, clothing store etc., I just go in there.