How do you think about sexual energy?
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Great thread starter!!
Personally, currently, neither
I think it’s important to understand what control looks like. Or rather, what it should look like.
Unless you have clear goals and a clear structure, it’s better to chase pussy and not try to bottle it up.
Personally, currently, neither
I think it’s important to understand what control looks like. Or rather, what it should look like.
Unless you have clear goals and a clear structure, it’s better to chase pussy and not try to bottle it up.
I'd not control but channel it in direction of my growth.
Semen retention helps you achieve that. You can use your sexual energy to become creative like Nikola Tesla, for example or at a basic level, use it in some form of art, seduction for example - eye contact seduction, to be precise.
Hope that answers your question cos I couldn't make complete sense of what you're trying to ask.
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Learning how to channel your sexual energy is one of the most important and useful things a man can do. We need @StrayDog on this thread. He already wrote up a great post on how to do it actually: https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/how-to-draw-orgasms-up-your-spine.26872/
I've seen you recommending this post a few times but I haven't gone though it since it was a lengthy post.
Have you been practicing it and have you found it helpful?
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Just skim through it so you understand the jist, then you can decide it it's worth checking out for yourself. Or there are youtube channels talking about it. One such channel is called "Sexual Kung Fu"
And yes, it's one of the best things to happen to my sex life. Instead of ejaculating and having the fun be over and being tired right after, I can go as long as I want and actually have multiple orgasms. And I'm also much more energized for whatever I want to do after, whether that be work or play.
I have to admit, I am naturally multi-orgasmic, apparently about 5-10% of men are. I didn't have to learn how to do it, so I'm not sure how hard it is to learn. I discovered sexual kung fu and realized that I could deepen the experience. Even being naturally multi-orgasmic there is much to learn.
I remember before I knew about the practice, I couldn't cum during sex but was determined to do so because that's just what seemed normal. After a while we switched tactics and the poor girl jerked me off vigorously with no luck for 15 mins straight. Bless her heart, she really put in effort. If I had known about the practice, I would realized I was too tense trying to make it happen and have just relaxed and enjoyed the sensations, then I probably would have actually came closer to ejaculation (and orgasm) and known to just hover near that area and experience the bliss...
There are many benefits.
Better sex
more control over sexual energy (channeling it rather than being ruled and distracted by it)
having multiple orgasms rather than just one
more energy
better health over the long term
You've probably heard that athletes don't have sex before big games. With good reason, they most likely ejaculate during sex and lose precious energy and the BEAST mode that sexual energy can create. Too bad they don't know they just need to avoid ejaculation, NOT sex. In fact, sexual kung fu style sex can enhance that energy and make them more effective.
