How I want to act Vs how i act in reality

[aquapura001]

Guys I want to change certain things in the way i approach girls like how i speak and how dominant i am. I know how i should act but in the heat of the moment when i approach i find myself acting too much like a 'nice guy' with too much politeness. I want to change this behaviour but in the heat of the moment when i go in i find myself resorting back using voicetones and saying things i don't want to because i feel more 'comfortable' the problem is that this comfortable behaviour is counter productive to my pick up. I know what good behaviour is because i have done sets in the past where i have acted the way i want to. However I find this is usually when i'm in a more comfortable environment and sometiems just randomly works. But most of the time i'd say i don't act the way i want to act.

Can someone please give me suggestions to slowly change these behaviours?

I'm no ta submissive pussy but i feel like i may come on too strong and rather than let this happen i think i 'go softer' because i feel my real behaviour will be too intense and scary for girls if that makes sense...