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Hi guys,
The question of this thread is based on a date where I missed a girl's escalation windows.
This is the TLDR of the date:
25mins into start of date I've already gotten her in back seat of my car. I fk up because this is my first physical escalation. There was an opportunity to have sex (she was horny enough to get into a position where she was sitting facing away from me with her ass in between my thighs and at that very moment she lifted her gown from behind to show me her underwear) and I didn't know what to do at this point. I didn't know how to take off a bra and some other embarassing shit
. She doesn't leave and starts mocking my lousy sexual skills and I manage to keep my cool. Then she actually seems not so keen to leave when I ended the date.
The good thing was that she had quite a barrier to kissing and I manhandled her so much and converted her to the point where she was ok with making out with me and we made out 3 times. I have reason to believe that she does want to see me again but I'll only know once I follow up with her to try to get a second date (End of field report has some indications of this).
I'm going to ask her to meet a second time. When should I suggest that we have this meet-up? One week after the first date? Or asap?
I read on some GC article, that casual relationships should be 10 days between meet but I doubt that applies here, because I haven't gotten to sex yet. So should it be move as fast as possible?
This is the field report for the relevant date if anyone is interested:
www.skilledseducer.com
Would appreciate ideas from anyone
Y
The question of this thread is based on a date where I missed a girl's escalation windows.
This is the TLDR of the date:
25mins into start of date I've already gotten her in back seat of my car. I fk up because this is my first physical escalation. There was an opportunity to have sex (she was horny enough to get into a position where she was sitting facing away from me with her ass in between my thighs and at that very moment she lifted her gown from behind to show me her underwear) and I didn't know what to do at this point. I didn't know how to take off a bra and some other embarassing shit
The good thing was that she had quite a barrier to kissing and I manhandled her so much and converted her to the point where she was ok with making out with me and we made out 3 times. I have reason to believe that she does want to see me again but I'll only know once I follow up with her to try to get a second date (End of field report has some indications of this).
I'm going to ask her to meet a second time. When should I suggest that we have this meet-up? One week after the first date? Or asap?
I read on some GC article, that casual relationships should be 10 days between meet but I doubt that applies here, because I haven't gotten to sex yet. So should it be move as fast as possible?
This is the field report for the relevant date if anyone is interested:
Y's journal: Working to break my virginity through dates
Now I'm going to start a journal and record what happens on each date I go on. This is because there are just so many things to think about so this is my way of keeping all the information on dates in the same place. I'm a virgin with zero sexual experience though I have gone on some dates...

Would appreciate ideas from anyone
Y