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In the latest update to my journal (here) I mention that the two friends I go out with tend to get more "freebies" or girls who are really attracted right off the jump than I do. This isn't me complaining or anything as I've been taking steps to improve my fundamentals over the past few months and have been making solid progress, but it's gotten me wondering how you can tell you're fundamentals are where you need them to be.
To make a tennis analogy, I feel like don't win many free points with my serve (get a lot of strong initial attraction based off my fundamentals) and thus have to rely on better ground strokes (better game) to make up for that. Both my friends have stronger serves, but even though their ground strokes aren't as strong as mine are, they don't face as much of an uphill battle as I do and encounter more women who are basically already sold on them.
So my questions are:
Thanks in advance guys,
Protean
To make a tennis analogy, I feel like don't win many free points with my serve (get a lot of strong initial attraction based off my fundamentals) and thus have to rely on better ground strokes (better game) to make up for that. Both my friends have stronger serves, but even though their ground strokes aren't as strong as mine are, they don't face as much of an uphill battle as I do and encounter more women who are basically already sold on them.
So my questions are:
- How often do you guys run into girls who are sold on you right off the jump?
- Did you see a dramatic jump in initial attraction when you got your fundamentals to a solid spot?
- Is this even something worth worry about? It may be the case where unlike tennis where the best in the sport have elite serves and ground strokes, the best seducers don't really care about freebies as they're consistent and efficient enough to get (pretty much) whoever they please.
Thanks in advance guys,
Protean