How should a second date go if u missed escalation windows at the seduction location and as a result did not have sex on the first date?

[Merchant's-Kin]

Hi guys,

The question of this thread is based on a date where I missed a girl's escalation windows.

This is the TLDR of the date:
25mins into start of date I've already gotten her in back seat of my car. I fk up because this is my first physical escalation. There was an opportunity to have sex (she was horny enough to get into a position where she was sitting facing away from me with her ass in between my thighs and at that very moment she lifted her gown from behind to show me her underwear) and I didn't know what to do at this point. I didn't know how to take off a bra and some other embarassing shit . She doesn't leave and starts mocking my lousy sexual skills and I manage to keep my cool. Then she actually seems not so keen to leave when I ended the date.

The good thing was that she had quite a barrier to kissing and I manhandled her so much and converted her to the point where she was ok with making out with me and we made out 3 times. I have reason to believe that she does want to see me again but I'll only know once I follow up with her to try to get a second date (End of field report has some indications of this).

If I do get a second date, should I be bringing her to the exact same seduction location again? I'm thinking I should change it up as much as possible. What do you all think?

Since my car is the seduction location, should I get her to meet me directly in the car or go for some kind of public venue date again and then pull her to the car again? Or drive her around in my car and then park somewhere and escalate again?

Also, should second date escalation happen at a faster pace than first-date escalation? I assume it should be because well she knows I'm going to try that so I have to make it more exciting for her?

This is the field report for the relevant date if anyone is interested:

Y's journal: Working to break my virginity through dates

Now I'm going to start a journal and record what happens on each date I go on. This is because there are just so many things to think about so this is my way of keeping all the information on dates in the same place. I'm a virgin with zero sexual experience though I have gone on some dates...

www.skilledseducer.com

Would appreciate ideas from anyone
Y

 

[Witcher]

Hi guys,

The question of this thread is based on a date where I missed a girl's escalation windows.

This is the TLDR of the date:
25mins into start of date I've already gotten her in back seat of my car. I fk up because this is my first physical escalation. There was an opportunity to have sex (she was horny enough to get into a position where she was sitting facing away from me with her ass in between my thighs and at that very moment she lifted her gown from behind to show me her underwear) and I didn't know what to do at this point. I didn't know how to take off a bra and some other embarassing shit . She doesn't leave and starts mocking my lousy sexual skills and I manage to keep my cool. Then she actually seems not so keen to leave when I ended the date.

The good thing was that she had quite a barrier to kissing and I manhandled her so much and converted her to the point where she was ok with making out with me and we made out 3 times. I have reason to believe that she does want to see me again but I'll only know once I follow up with her to try to get a second date (End of field report has some indications of this).

If I do get a second date, should I be bringing her to the exact same seduction location again? I'm thinking I should change it up as much as possible. What do you all think?

Since my car is the seduction location, should I get her to meet me directly in the car or go for some kind of public venue date again and then pull her to the car again? Or drive her around in my car and then park somewhere and escalate again?

Also, should second date escalation happen at a faster pace than first-date escalation? I assume it should be because well she knows I'm going to try that so I have to make it more exciting for her?

This is the field report for the relevant date if anyone is interested:

Y's journal: Working to break my virginity through dates

Now I'm going to start a journal and record what happens on each date I go on. This is because there are just so many things to think about so this is my way of keeping all the information on dates in the same place. I'm a virgin with zero sexual experience though I have gone on some dates...

www.skilledseducer.com

Would appreciate ideas from anyone
Y

I think you find some guidance here:

3 Second Date Strategies to Make Her Flirt and Swoon

With a question on strategies to use on a second date, the Tool (one of our valued readers and forum participants) over on the post requesting ideas for new forum join bonus says: “Hey Chase, Personally I know myself and alot of other people would appreciate an ebook, or post on how/when to ask...

www.girlschase.com

happy hunting

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Thanks for the advice @Witcher !

Will read that immediately and do some summarising and planning

 

[Merchant's-Kin]

Another good article to read on this would be:

Tactics Tuesdays: Recovering from Botched Escalations to Sex

When you try to have sex with a girl, but fail, often that's it: you won't get another shot with her. Yet all is not lost with her – you still have options. Failing in your escalation to sex is, often, a kiss of death. You were inches away from intimacy with a girl... and then you didn't reach...

www.girlschase.com

For anyone else interested.