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I cold approached a girl on the street while going to the gym sometime ago and complimented her hair and I discovered she works at my office. So, I didn't take her number and left it at that. Fast forward a few weeks, she meets me in the office and tells me to message her on office messenger. I didn't. She met me again and this time I took her number instead and told her that I don't want to message her on office messenger. She was ok with that.
We texted back and forth and I told her I want to keep things professional at work. So, I'm not keen to meet or continue this. She said she has a bf and since she works in a different department, it should be fine. I was hesitant and didn't text her again. She texted after a week and I didn't show much interest. Then after a week, I saw her at office and texted her that evening and thought she's dtf and asked if she'd like to meet. Maybe I came across a bit needy and she suggested a date after 3 weeks and said we should meet in the morning time. I was a bit pissed ofsince I felt she was playing me and so I said to her, "let's see, if I'm free then". She replied to that saying "remind me if I forget" which was a bratty behavior. So, I didn't respond to that text. The date that she suggested was last Sunday but neither of us bothered about it.
Anyway, she saw me at work this week and that evening she texted me saying "Sunday passed by but we didn't meet lol". I didn't say anything to that but just said "hey, how are you?". Since then I'm taking ages to reply but she texts me immediately. Today, she asked again if I'd like to meet for lunch the coming Friday. She's hot and would like to fuck but... 1) I don't want to shit where I eat 2) I don't want to show interest to fuck her but if she initiates, I'm ok.. 3) I also don't want to be her lunch buddy. How do I play this?
We texted back and forth and I told her I want to keep things professional at work. So, I'm not keen to meet or continue this. She said she has a bf and since she works in a different department, it should be fine. I was hesitant and didn't text her again. She texted after a week and I didn't show much interest. Then after a week, I saw her at office and texted her that evening and thought she's dtf and asked if she'd like to meet. Maybe I came across a bit needy and she suggested a date after 3 weeks and said we should meet in the morning time. I was a bit pissed ofsince I felt she was playing me and so I said to her, "let's see, if I'm free then". She replied to that saying "remind me if I forget" which was a bratty behavior. So, I didn't respond to that text. The date that she suggested was last Sunday but neither of us bothered about it.
Anyway, she saw me at work this week and that evening she texted me saying "Sunday passed by but we didn't meet lol". I didn't say anything to that but just said "hey, how are you?". Since then I'm taking ages to reply but she texts me immediately. Today, she asked again if I'd like to meet for lunch the coming Friday. She's hot and would like to fuck but... 1) I don't want to shit where I eat 2) I don't want to show interest to fuck her but if she initiates, I'm ok.. 3) I also don't want to be her lunch buddy. How do I play this?
