How should I react if a girl pulls away when I kiss her?

[Scofield]

Or if she just sits/stands there without kissing back? Sometimes girls just say things like "don't" or "it's not you, I'm just really shy"

Or what if I just met her and we're on the dancefloor and I'm just trying to see how far I can push her?

I tried Chase's "if you keep reacting that way, you'll ruin all your chances with me" but it didn't work out. I'll try it again, but any other suggestions? Sadly, girls pull away from me quite often....

 

[trashKENNUT]

Scofield,

Or if she just sits/stands there without kissing back? Sometimes girls just say things like "don't" or "it's not you, I'm just really shy"

Or what if I just met her and we're on the dancefloor and I'm just trying to see how far I can push her?

I tried Chase's "if you keep reacting that way, you'll ruin all your chances with me" but it didn't work out. I'll try it again, but any other suggestions? Sadly, girls pull away from me quite often....

You will pretend nothing happens and resume conversation, then prime her again. I hope you didn't use that Chase method the first time you try to kiss her. She will feel too much pressure, and she leaves. Nevertheless, there wasn't any sexual innuendos and framing here i assume before you kiss her? Anyway there's another recommendation that it's better you do not kiss her until you bring her to a secluded location, and escalate.

Zac

 

[Garrett]

Once again, agreed with Zac on this one.

Scofield, you want to make sure that when you kiss the girl, that you do it somewhere where you know you are about to escalate. Also, if you don't set frames and then you randomly kiss her on the dance floor, she's going to be a bit confused (especially if she doesn't like you all that much). You want to set sexual/chase frames so she subconsciously wants you, then you want to take her to some private location and escalate. Even if you set the frames and kissed her on the dance floor, what that'd mean is you'd have to have sex with her THEN and THERE or else the sexual tension would dry up. That's the thing about kissing, once you do it, you have to move things forward or else it's going to be a pain getting her to comply. Once you kiss her, she's going to start thinking, "okay, I got this guy now!" So the mystery/intrigue/challenge dries up quite a bit. The thing is, if you kiss her but you stop kissing her first, the ball's in your court, so you CAN actually do that. If you go to kiss her and she backs off first, you're kinda screwed because the ball's now in her court. The safer bet would be to wait till your somewhere private, it's more efficient and you'll probably get better results, especially if you're new to this.

Anyways, keep that in mind for next time!
Garrett

 

[Tyme2k]

You will want to remain unreactive no matter what. Pretend as if you never went in and just keep talking. Get her more comfortable to touch, compliance test and try again later. One thing I heard somewhere that will always stick, "If she wont hold your hand she wont kiss you."

Great responses, but I usually approach this from another angle, when a makeout window is there take it. A few things to remember if you go for the makeout:

Get the sexual tension high.
Get her face close to yours, but tease her. Don't kiss immediately.
Make her want the kiss.
When you see the window take it, but pull away FIRST. This is the most important part about makeout game. This makes her crave more.
Move and lead!
Try to get her outside of the venue and solve logistics on the way.
Once outside if you cant solve logistics, number close.

This is what I did last night in my FR. Text'd her today with a sweet response. Sucks she's from out of town, but surely she will hit me up when she's here next time. I gave her a wild experience that she will not forget. Next time she knows I will escalate to sex and there's nothing wrong with this, I left her wanting more and never became the chaser. Women want and crave sex, it's our job to be the type of sexual man that can give it to them the way they want. I believe Chase has a post on this that there are two types of pulls women want: The sexual fantasy where you take her quickly and sexually and the prince charming method. I prefer the type of girl that likes the first one.

I have done this once before and received a text right when the girl was returning to town to hook up. I didn't because I'm not allt hat attracted, but we both know where it would have led and she is OK with that. This is also in my FR.

 

[Scofield]

Wait.....really? If she pulls away or says "what are you doing?" or any of a million things...I just ignore her and keep talking to her like nothing happened? That's....very counter intuitive....

What if she refuses to let the subject go?

How can I test if a girl will let me hold her hand naturally?

 

[Tyme2k]

Counter intuitive huh.. try it! The main thing about this game is there is no 100% sure fire way to do it! All you will read here at girls chase, at rsdn any material is not a secret key to every woman's vagina. You must trial and error on your own to see what works. The more you field test the more you can say OK that worked because... oh that didn't work why? Oh I know why just like chase said...

Now onto technical.stuff, some simple compliance testing I do:
-If she's wearing any rings randomly take her hand and inspect it, when she ask don't comment just say"just looking." You can comment like "is that ring special or you just like it."
-if her nails are painted same thing, same answer "just looking" or if u need to converse say " did you paint those yourself,(possible tease) I hope not u should get ur money back"
- last andthe most natural, lead her somewhere and always take her hand. I usually turn the direction I will be traveling then turn look at her and put my arm out for her to take my hand. Or you can just quickly grab it and start moving"lets go over here, I'm too hot blabla."

With any of these remember to not linger until she is uncomfortable. You need to ALWAYS be the first to let go. Sometimes you may even want to lightly toss her hand away like ur bored with it.

Sorry for any poor grammer and typos, doing this from my phone.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Wait.....really? If she pulls away or says "what are you doing?" or any of a million things...I just ignore her and keep talking to her like nothing happened? That's....very counter intuitive....

What if she refuses to let the subject go?

How can I test if a girl will let me hold her hand naturally?

Fundamentals also play a role here.

Her - "What are you doing?"

You - "Nothing...."

Here if you never put a sexy smile after saying that, even she will think that you not really interested in her all that much. It is important to handle your fundamentals, and especially in this kind of situations where you have to be calm when she pulls away. Likely this problem might be your approach and conversation prior to the escalation, that could be an error here or two. If she say it in a negative tone, you probably be better talking to another girl because if you going to just talk to her and prime her again, it will take effort again.

Note: I tend to get away with looking at women's pussy and breast openly and just become neutral after that, mainly because they are really hot, and likely because i am calm but she was too hot. ^_^ Get your fundamentals well and you tend to get pass here and there easily, and also when you build sexual/chase frames prior to bringing her to a secluded location.

Zac

 

[Scofield]

And yes, I probably didn't build up the sexual tension enough before making a move....I'm working it. I'll try pretending like it's nothing....any tips for recovering? What should I talk about after and how can I continue to prime her? And what if she really doesn't want to drop the subject? lol

 

[trashKENNUT]

And yes, I probably didn't build up the sexual tension enough before making a move....I'm working it. I'll try pretending like it's nothing....any tips for recovering? What should I talk about after and how can I continue to prime her? And what if she really doesn't want to drop the subject? lol

Resume conversation by bring her to the side if you in the middle of somewhere, a club maybe. Continue deep dive and ask her about herself, or if it's awkward, keep things general with the surroundings as the topic, and slowly build her up again. If she doesn't want to drop the subject? she's likely wants you to persist, unless she's retard. lol

Zac

 

[Altimeter]

There's a tiny detail about pretending like it's nothing.

YOU pretend like it's nothing after she refuses your kiss or after your kiss

However, if she asks something like "do you want to fuck me?"

You have to say "hell yeah woman, I wanna fuck you. Why, do men generally don't want to fuck when they see you?" or whatever



See where I'm getting at ? You have to act like it's nothing depending on the situation. Sex is no big deal, kissing is no big deal
However, you do want to fuck and if she asks if you're man enough for it. Don't be a little boy.