How to answer to question when girls don’t care about your answer

[Whiteheart]

Few times it happened to me that I messaged girls that don’t like me or whatever. They would answer to my text, formally asked me how I am and then ghosted me. I used some date scheduler text or some witty, light text. Usually I would get the answer:
Example:
Hey Blackheart. Everything is fine, I work all day. No I haven’t traveled home since then. Bla, bla, bla... How are you? Take care of yourelf (sometimes this last sentence isn’t included).
So template is always the same. She will answer message, in the middle or in the end of text will formaly ask „How are you“, and will never respond to my messages. If I am very persistent and text her again, she texts me she is busy and then ghosts me.
There is one Chase’s article about how to respond to her text screens.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-how-respond-her-text-screens
Can that be used in these kind of situations, i.e. to treat this „How are you“ question as her text screen? Any other suggestions?

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@Blackheart dude! You've missed the most important part out of the situation and that is how you're currently replying.

Firstly her message reads like the kiss of death, it couldn't be more uninterested if she tried. "Everything is fine. I work all day. No I haven't travelled..." she's bored. "Everything is fine thanks yeah I work all day, I just love teaching! I haven't travelled home since then but I'll be going next month!" - is the response you want.

I'm also wondering why you asked 20 questions to begin with... this could be the root of your problem. We'd need more context.

Getting back to your question, "how are you?" Is not a screen. Answer it like a screen and you'll look socially inept. I'm not sure how you're currently responding but this will lead you to dead ends if you don't lead the conversation forward. You've got to direct her where you need her, if you've got something to work with this makes life easier, if you've got nothing you can work around it.

Using your example:
"I'm great thanks, you sound like a workaholic! What do you do for fun?"
"I know the feeling. Work hard, play hard! I'm still recovering from last weekend, I went out for my friends birthday. Have you got anything fun planned this week?"
"I'm great thanks, hope you're well. That's a shame, are you planning to go home soon?"
"I'm good thanks, just been busy working! That's cool, do you enjoy living away from home?"

I've answered something similar before, check out this thread for some more ideas

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