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A cute girl showed me a lot of very chasing type interest (got down on one knee to give me a cupcake, subtly mentioned my junk, blowing me a kiss etc). All of these interactions are in school, so they’re always short because they are easily interrupted by either the bell or the next activity.
I’ve been pretty dry with her overall, because I know shes the kind of girl that’ll keep trying (at least for a while). I plan to bring out the good stuff when I can talk to her 1on1 with no interruptions, but I’m lost on how to approach her.
The thing is, if I approach her I’ll be flipping the already very good dynamic of her chasing me, which makes me lose my advantage and makes me feel stuck waiting for her to approach me (which may not be at an ideal time)
I’m also being wary of suddenly rewarding her with attention when I’ve been fairly dry with her, as i’ve only given her my instagram as a small sign of interest after she put herself far out there. I want to make her earn it.
If y’all have a way that I can approach her that’ll squash all these concerns, I’m all ears.
I’ve been pretty dry with her overall, because I know shes the kind of girl that’ll keep trying (at least for a while). I plan to bring out the good stuff when I can talk to her 1on1 with no interruptions, but I’m lost on how to approach her.
The thing is, if I approach her I’ll be flipping the already very good dynamic of her chasing me, which makes me lose my advantage and makes me feel stuck waiting for her to approach me (which may not be at an ideal time)
I’m also being wary of suddenly rewarding her with attention when I’ve been fairly dry with her, as i’ve only given her my instagram as a small sign of interest after she put herself far out there. I want to make her earn it.
If y’all have a way that I can approach her that’ll squash all these concerns, I’m all ears.