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Hey tvktvk!
Off the top of my head, bringing 'Sex talk' into the conversation and then seeing how well she relates to it could be a sneaky smooth way of finding out where she's been at.
If your feeling ballsy you can always polarise a lil' and say something like:
'You're definitely a virgin!' in which case she'll agree, you can laugh, explain why or 'You definitely love hooking up with loads of people!' it gets such a funny reaction and is quite the alpha move.
Let me know if any of those appeal
- Rob
Off the top of my head, bringing 'Sex talk' into the conversation and then seeing how well she relates to it could be a sneaky smooth way of finding out where she's been at.
If your feeling ballsy you can always polarise a lil' and say something like:
'You're definitely a virgin!' in which case she'll agree, you can laugh, explain why or 'You definitely love hooking up with loads of people!' it gets such a funny reaction and is quite the alpha move.
Let me know if any of those appeal
- Rob
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As for me I would just assume she is a virgin and proceed as outlined here. I do not think it is a good idea to ask about a girl's sexual history unless you are deliberately trying to qualify/screen her. The reason is that by qualifying her you actually MAKE her INTO the kind of girl you want (women are water...). So if you ask the leading question "are you a virgin" then if she likes you, she will assume that being a virgin is a desirable characteristic for you, and likely lie about her sexual history. I know of a case where this happened, a month or two back my gf's best friend was anxiously texting her "oh no I lied and told my boyfriend I'm a virgin, now I want to have sex with him, oh no what can I do etc etc"... I suggested she just go ahead and have sex and he won't have any idea she wasn't a virgin, whereas my gf was all for being honest, but I am not sure what she did in the end (they are now a couple and have had sex, but they have some problems as I privately predicted to my gf, probably because he moved too slow, pedestalized/Madonna-ized her and put himself in a bf/provider zone, though I don't have details).
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"So, are you a virgin?"
I always ask girls about their sexual history, whether it's prolific or non-existent. If it's a lot, then I'm +1. If it's not, well then I like to tell them that I want to bring "out their inner animal."
Virgins and inexperienced girls are my favorite to be sexually direct with. Telling them you want to stretch out their tight little pussy gets them gasping in shock...and pleasure.
- Hector
I always ask girls about their sexual history, whether it's prolific or non-existent. If it's a lot, then I'm +1. If it's not, well then I like to tell them that I want to bring "out their inner animal."
Virgins and inexperienced girls are my favorite to be sexually direct with. Telling them you want to stretch out their tight little pussy gets them gasping in shock...and pleasure.
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Haha, guess there's no straight answer here. Thanks for the replies guys, I think I'm going to ask her about past relationships and take it from there.
I feel she's really hard to read, amazing to talk to but everything is really pg13 with her. Gotta make things happen next time, and if nothing happens it's time to next. #wordplaylol
tvktvk
I feel she's really hard to read, amazing to talk to but everything is really pg13 with her. Gotta make things happen next time, and if nothing happens it's time to next. #wordplaylol
tvktvk
Wow look at this:
This sort of a none right answer happens all the time I sometimes wonder who to listen to. I would have asked the same question as tvktvk. I guess the only true answer is test test test. Experience is the winner. Choose what works for you I guess.
IMO its only good to ask a girl if she is a virgin only when she has brought up some sexual talk and she is getting close to that. Or usually girls ask me if I'm a virgin and I joke with them and ask them the same.
For all my close female friends, I say get them to tell you all their dirty secrets. Don't do it all at once. Just get so comfortable with your female friends that you can tell them " you know I'm going out tonight to fuck some hot chick " and they reply all excited saying " really?? Lol last night I gave my man a good deep throat.
I do it and it works. Trust me it builds a closer connection. You'd be surprised.
Troy
This sort of a none right answer happens all the time I sometimes wonder who to listen to. I would have asked the same question as tvktvk. I guess the only true answer is test test test. Experience is the winner. Choose what works for you I guess.
IMO its only good to ask a girl if she is a virgin only when she has brought up some sexual talk and she is getting close to that. Or usually girls ask me if I'm a virgin and I joke with them and ask them the same.
For all my close female friends, I say get them to tell you all their dirty secrets. Don't do it all at once. Just get so comfortable with your female friends that you can tell them " you know I'm going out tonight to fuck some hot chick " and they reply all excited saying " really?? Lol last night I gave my man a good deep throat.
I do it and it works. Trust me it builds a closer connection. You'd be surprised.
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I'm pretty sure chase would say not to ask her if she's a virgin because she'll think that you value virgins over other girls and she will lie just to please you. If you do everything right and have her in the bedroom with you she will tell you herself if she is a virgin. You won't have to ask.
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Just to throw a lil' in the mix about the differing opinions, it really depends what you're going for in terms of your outward game. I think me and Anatman are a lot more overt and Drexel is so smooth from what I've seen (using vibe more). Either way just find what fits your game and like Troy said, 'Test, Test, Test!' ^^
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Generally, I find it's best not to ask a girl this sort of question until you've had sex with her. As GeneralFap correctly noted, it makes her subconsciously aware of the fact that the word "virgin" holds some value to you, otherwise you wouldn't have asked about it. This can easily result in LMR during escalation toward sex.
That being said, once you've already been in the sheets with her, asking her about what her virginity status was (prior to sex with you) is usually a non-issue. You can bring it up in post-sex "pillow" talk with her or maybe the next time you see her (if you choose to see her again).
EDIT: As a side note, I'd like to mention that Hector's method is interesting in the sense that, it probably is a good thing if the girl actually IS a virgin -- it lets him address the topic with her so that she feels comfortable with it, and then he can get more sexual with her without worrying about reservations on her end. At the same time, it's a bit of a double-edged sword; if the girl is not a virgin, then you've suddenly put pressure on her to act that way by letting her know that you value the word itself. This is what can result in the LMR.
So, if you're strictly screening for virgins, it might not be a bad idea to ask girls about it prior to sex (since screening out a "non-virgin" actually helps your cause). But if you're trying to cast a wider net and lay both virgins and non-virgins, it might be better to play it safe.
- Franco
That being said, once you've already been in the sheets with her, asking her about what her virginity status was (prior to sex with you) is usually a non-issue. You can bring it up in post-sex "pillow" talk with her or maybe the next time you see her (if you choose to see her again).
EDIT: As a side note, I'd like to mention that Hector's method is interesting in the sense that, it probably is a good thing if the girl actually IS a virgin -- it lets him address the topic with her so that she feels comfortable with it, and then he can get more sexual with her without worrying about reservations on her end. At the same time, it's a bit of a double-edged sword; if the girl is not a virgin, then you've suddenly put pressure on her to act that way by letting her know that you value the word itself. This is what can result in the LMR.
So, if you're strictly screening for virgins, it might not be a bad idea to ask girls about it prior to sex (since screening out a "non-virgin" actually helps your cause). But if you're trying to cast a wider net and lay both virgins and non-virgins, it might be better to play it safe.
- Franco
Asking after 2 dates is weird if you're not in a sexual situation.
Usually you get hints during escalation or while you're talking about going back to yours or similar topics which make your intentions obvious.
The closer to the deed you are, the more obvious the hints you will get if she wants you to know.
Often she'll just say it once you're going down that path.
If you notice those hints and/or she's very shy and reserved during the pull, you can ask since it's a fair question. "May I ask you a personal question", then you can even not wait for them to reply and just ask "would this be your first time".
Usually you get hints during escalation or while you're talking about going back to yours or similar topics which make your intentions obvious.
The closer to the deed you are, the more obvious the hints you will get if she wants you to know.
Often she'll just say it once you're going down that path.
If you notice those hints and/or she's very shy and reserved during the pull, you can ask since it's a fair question. "May I ask you a personal question", then you can even not wait for them to reply and just ask "would this be your first time".