I have gotten myself into a stick situation.
I have created a relationship expectations which I don't want to continue anymore.
I had sex with a girl whom I met on dating app and hit it off.
Now we had unprotected sex and she had irregular periods she thought she might be pregnant, we went to doctor and she said there is a slim chance. Anyways to console her at that point I said I will carry the child and we will marry.
Now after this all episode she had her period. So finally, this headache of rearing a kid was over. But she told me in last 15 days she has became very close to me. I didn't called her when she told me her periods started.
During those 15 days we were calling every day and chatting on phone she was giving me emotional support for my office and some other personal problems.
Now, when she said this to me. I said nothing has changed. Then we were supposed to meet but I had some other plans so I told her I am busy.
Later that night I texted her and decided to go meet her. She said that there was no need to lie if I wanted to party.
But I learnt she had cut her hand. She has engaged in self harm before meeting me as well.
Also, I had told her after 2 weeks of laying. That I want to explore more and I was treating her as GF. So, she was mentally prepared to not get emotionally attached to me. But now she said after this baby episode she will be very affected if I leave her.
Also, she has a fear she can't get pregnant so she was very keen on getting pregnant.
Now, this weekend I had unprotected sex with her good thing is she was on her periods but I am afraid if I continue with her I will end up making her pregnant. Also, I can't continue seducing other women while with her.
How should I break up with her in least damaging way?
I am thinking of saying this I will end up making you pregnant and I don't want kid right now so let's end this relationship.
If she ask me stay as a friend then it will be a problem.
Also, her friends left the city so she will be kinda alone.
I have created a relationship expectations which I don't want to continue anymore.
I had sex with a girl whom I met on dating app and hit it off.
Now we had unprotected sex and she had irregular periods she thought she might be pregnant, we went to doctor and she said there is a slim chance. Anyways to console her at that point I said I will carry the child and we will marry.
Now after this all episode she had her period. So finally, this headache of rearing a kid was over. But she told me in last 15 days she has became very close to me. I didn't called her when she told me her periods started.
During those 15 days we were calling every day and chatting on phone she was giving me emotional support for my office and some other personal problems.
Now, when she said this to me. I said nothing has changed. Then we were supposed to meet but I had some other plans so I told her I am busy.
Later that night I texted her and decided to go meet her. She said that there was no need to lie if I wanted to party.
But I learnt she had cut her hand. She has engaged in self harm before meeting me as well.
Also, I had told her after 2 weeks of laying. That I want to explore more and I was treating her as GF. So, she was mentally prepared to not get emotionally attached to me. But now she said after this baby episode she will be very affected if I leave her.
Also, she has a fear she can't get pregnant so she was very keen on getting pregnant.
Now, this weekend I had unprotected sex with her good thing is she was on her periods but I am afraid if I continue with her I will end up making her pregnant. Also, I can't continue seducing other women while with her.
How should I break up with her in least damaging way?
I am thinking of saying this I will end up making you pregnant and I don't want kid right now so let's end this relationship.
If she ask me stay as a friend then it will be a problem.
Also, her friends left the city so she will be kinda alone.