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Hi guys, I know the typical advice is to avoid hired guns, but this is a little different from the usual situations. I'm a regular at this club and I always talk to the chick that works the door, there's always been a connection/sexual tension between us that my wing men and wing woman have commented on. About a month ago she called me her favourite person, we talked/flirted a bit, but she had colleagues near her, so I opted not to ask her out or persist too much.
I didn't go back to this club for a few weeks, on my next visit she wasn't there, and this weekend gone she was back. She seen me and said that it was her favourite person, she stamped my hand, usually they just stamp your hand with your hand on the desk or hanging in the air, but she took my hand with her other hand to stamp it and kept hold a little bit, while we continued to talk.
We talked for a little while, she had a colleague next to her which put me off asking her out again, the conversation continued and then I felt a little awkward keeping on talking knowing I wasn't going to ask her out/ask for her number so I exited on a high note to go into the club.
I don't really know how to follow this up other than growing a pair and asking her out/for her number. I've heard she has a boyfriend, he was a photographer in another venue and rather well known, so I'm keen to be very covert and not ask her out in front of her colleagues.
Warrior
I didn't go back to this club for a few weeks, on my next visit she wasn't there, and this weekend gone she was back. She seen me and said that it was her favourite person, she stamped my hand, usually they just stamp your hand with your hand on the desk or hanging in the air, but she took my hand with her other hand to stamp it and kept hold a little bit, while we continued to talk.
We talked for a little while, she had a colleague next to her which put me off asking her out again, the conversation continued and then I felt a little awkward keeping on talking knowing I wasn't going to ask her out/ask for her number so I exited on a high note to go into the club.
I don't really know how to follow this up other than growing a pair and asking her out/for her number. I've heard she has a boyfriend, he was a photographer in another venue and rather well known, so I'm keen to be very covert and not ask her out in front of her colleagues.
Warrior
