How to deal with girls into astrology and other chick-crack?

[sab]

I noticed some girls are into astrology and other types of chick-crack (palm reading, destiny, tarot etc..). I consider all this stuff hogwash. I don't want to lose a girl because of that and try to play along. I have tried using some palm reading on some girls - even though it was mostly making things up - as a means for kino and it seems to work on some girls. But to me it's BS. How do you deal with this and be authentic and congruent with your frame. I had some smart girls really bring up this topic. I was a hesitant to really go along. Interested of hearing of other views.

 

[Gaturro]

if it’s bs for you just ignore it, it should be YOUR frame the one in control, you can ask her about it and try to go from there to other topics so you can establish a connection with her. deep diving etc.

or you can just use it for banter, like “oh fuck you believe in astrology? waiter, the bill please!!”

whether she likes astrology or not, it should be irrelevant in my opinion

 

[Will_V]

I noticed some girls are into astrology and other types of chick-crack (palm reading, destiny, tarot etc..). I consider all this stuff hogwash. I don't want to lose a girl because of that and try to play along. I have tried used some palm reading on some girls - even though it was mostly making things up - as a means for kino and it seems to work on some girls. But to me it's BS. How do you deal with this and be authentic and congruent with your frame. I had some smart girls really bring up this topic. I was a hesitant to really go along. Interested of hearing of other views.

I love it when a woman is into this sort of stuff, it means that she believes in a reality that has structure and meaning. That means she's likely to be a girl who is capable of being optimistic, especially about long term investments.

Based on having a two year relationship with a girl who believed in astrology, I can say it was only good for the relationship. It made her introspective (something that did not come naturally to her) and fed into a range of behaviours (vision boards, meditation, a tendency for planning) that I approved of.

One of the skills of good leadership is not impulsively judging things that people do or say, but asking yourself whether it reveals a character you can rely on and trust more in the scope of the relationship they have with you.

 

[Gaturro]

if she asks you what time you were born RUN!!

 

[William Wallace]

I love it when a woman is into this sort of stuff, it means that she believes in a reality that has structure and meaning. That means she's likely to be a girl who is capable of being optimistic, especially about long term investments.

Based on having a two year relationship with a girl who believed in astrology, I can say it was only good for the relationship. It made her introspective (something that did not come naturally to her) and fed into a range of behaviours (vision boards, meditation, a tendency for planning) that I approved of.

One of the skills of good leadership is not impulsively judging things that people do or say, but asking yourself whether it reveals a character you can rely on and trust more in the scope of the relationship they have with you.

Interesting take. i mean i would listen to what she wants to say about it for fun

 

[sab]

I love it when a woman is into this sort of stuff, it means that she believes in a reality that has structure and meaning. That means she's likely to be a girl who is capable of being optimistic, especially about long term investments.

Based on having a two year relationship with a girl who believed in astrology, I can say it was only good for the relationship. It made her introspective (something that did not come naturally to her) and fed into a range of behaviours (vision boards, meditation, a tendency for planning) that I approved of.

One of the skills of good leadership is not impulsively judging things that people do or say, but asking yourself whether it reveals a character you can rely on and trust more in the scope of the relationship they have with you.

@Will_V
You seem to be tolerant and understanding of other people's frames. I need to stop being judgmental and accept that others have different perspectives from mine. It's a work in progress because of my temperament and background. I think that men, in general, are more logical and maybe less emotional in contrast to women. There are exceptions for sure. I could be also emotional. It depends also on the stage of life. In my teen years I used to look at the horoscopes etc...These type of girls I found to be optimistic and passionate and engaged. I find I hooked up pretty well with these type of girls.