How to deal with "sudden" approaches naturally?

[Beam]

I find that when I have time to take a girl in, or when we've both noticed each other for a short while (5-20 seconds), it's a lot easier and genuine to go up to her and compliment her on her look and start a conversation from there.

But in a lot of situations you'll run into each other so quickly (like, both running into each other from opposite corners for instance) that you only have a split second to take action, because she's usually in a hurry. In cases like this using the standard "hey, I know this is random, but I thought you.." or "you have the most..." doesn't come across as genuine at all, and just feels like you're practicing a script on the first immediate girl to walk into the vicinity since you really haven't had time to take her in - to her it seems like you would have said this about any girl rounding the corner.

Curious to hear how you guys naturally deal with situations like this?

 

[Space]

In cases like this using the standard "hey, I know this is random, but I thought you.." or "you have the most..." doesn't come across as genuine at all

The standard "hey, I know this is random, but I thought you.." or "you have the most..." just doesn't seem genuine from my perspective saying it to any girl in any situation at all but it's just me. And a few other guys.

What I'd do in such a "sudden" situation? Here's one example of such a situation happened to me. I say the key is awareness and meditation. Be always aware and alert. How to do it? A couple 1000s of hours more meditation than I did would do the trick I guess. I'm somewhat better at it than I were last year but still miss some of these "sudden" opportunities. This is also the answer, at least part of the answer I can give to @Pitcher to our discussion in my thread about the above example situation but now in your thread. Sorry Pitcher, I know it's a little complicated with me.

Anyways, just subscribing to your thread. This is interesting.

 

[M_Ronin]

How I deal with it personally? I don't. I approached women who did not seem to be open for it before and it didn't go well. Probably because they were in good relationships already and they didn't need more dick in their lives. This has nothing to do with the way you look. They were already satisfied.

I only approach after some kind of IOI now. And in the times I approach where I was not specifically invited, I start off more platonic and let my manly charm do the work for me. At this point it is them seducing me.

I think It is rather inconsiderate otherwise.

 

[Skills]

I find that when I have time to take a girl in, or when we've both noticed each other for a short while (5-20 seconds), it's a lot easier and genuine to go up to her and compliment her on her look and start a conversation from there.

But in a lot of situations you'll run into each other so quickly (like, both running into each other from opposite corners for instance) that you only have a split second to take action, because she's usually in a hurry. In cases like this using the standard "hey, I know this is random, but I thought you.." or "you have the most..." doesn't come across as genuine at all, and just feels like you're practicing a script on the first immediate girl to walk into the vicinity since you really haven't had time to take her in - to her it seems like you would have said this about any girl rounding the corner.

Curious to hear how you guys naturally deal with situations like this?

The best openers are situational cause they come across natural and spontaneous based on whatever is going on.... if a girl noticed you a good canned opener that has work for me tremendously and comes accross a bit situational from cajun is: how you are going to look at me like that, and not say hi i am skills..... or how you are going to notice me like that and not introduce yourself i am skills.... or whatever you feel comfortable like that in your own words and personality style...... A good what is accusing a girl to be looking at you as well, i stole it from gll:

me: hey i saw that
her: saw what or what
me: you were looking at me
her: no i was not
me: yes you were totally checking me out
her: no i did not
me: see you are doing it right now, enough enough, i am skills

 

[Fuck This]

Usually a situational opener.
"Excuse me, Sorry, didn't see you there. Are you ok?"
At this point eye contact is going to tel me if I'm going to continue or not...

This has worked for me on trails while hiking or running. Many times they will push the introduction.

 

[Cody Lyans]

I use a tractor beam approach
I first SLOW my walking pace down
I look at her as I do this
I lift one or two fingers (its less intrusive than a full wave or hand stop gesture)
I then lean back and twist or turn towards her
I then shuffle my feet and set a stance in front of her
Then I stand facing her normally
Pause, take a breath
Glimmer with eye contact
"I had to say hi! I'm only human. How are you? I am Cody, jen? Oh so nice to meet you. Look I know you are probably in a rush, but can I steal you for two seconds?"