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Hi Guys,
If you happen to notice this, when you are invited to parties and then the quality male, which is your friend brings a lot of girls which are good looking. You will talk to the girls but i realize something. When i used to not be so good with women (and i have a long way to go), i will talk with my quality male friend about how the girl i talk in the party is beautiful and all this thing.
The quality male friend just listen, cut loose and do about as if it is no big deal. No rewarding of such behavior, no smile, no nothing. And then i felt guilty. I started to not talk to the girl so often.
I know some guys, in fact most guys do not like certain friends getting along with girls who they believe have certain weaknesses that the guy could not handle properly. For most average guys, they be more bold, more loud, in fact more "stupid". I want to note that you CAN'T and WILL NEVER STOP GIRLS FROM TALKING TO YOUR GUY FRIENDS OR ANY OTHER GUYS IN THIS WORLD, AND IT'S NOT YOUR LIFE TO BEGIN WITH.
but with not rewarding your friends when they bring "your girls" to talk with you, you done your part. She has to take responsibility herself. You know her weakness but you can only do your part. She has to learn about herself.
Zac
If you happen to notice this, when you are invited to parties and then the quality male, which is your friend brings a lot of girls which are good looking. You will talk to the girls but i realize something. When i used to not be so good with women (and i have a long way to go), i will talk with my quality male friend about how the girl i talk in the party is beautiful and all this thing.
The quality male friend just listen, cut loose and do about as if it is no big deal. No rewarding of such behavior, no smile, no nothing. And then i felt guilty. I started to not talk to the girl so often.
I know some guys, in fact most guys do not like certain friends getting along with girls who they believe have certain weaknesses that the guy could not handle properly. For most average guys, they be more bold, more loud, in fact more "stupid". I want to note that you CAN'T and WILL NEVER STOP GIRLS FROM TALKING TO YOUR GUY FRIENDS OR ANY OTHER GUYS IN THIS WORLD, AND IT'S NOT YOUR LIFE TO BEGIN WITH.
but with not rewarding your friends when they bring "your girls" to talk with you, you done your part. She has to take responsibility herself. You know her weakness but you can only do your part. She has to learn about herself.
Zac
