I don't know how to flirt or have enjoyable conversations with women. I can get to know women and deep dive using canned questions but that's it. If I go out and approach, the woman is getting out of there and walking away within a minute. So the only way for me to get interactions lasting longer than 5 minutes is through dating apps/online. With those women, if I get them on the phone they will half of the time ignore all of my future messages. If I get a woman out on a date, either with or without a phone call, she seems excited to meet, shows up on time etc. but is really disappointed or disengaged in person and leaves feeling visibly disappointed at the end of the date. That's happening even when I get to know them well. I'm tired of letting them and myself down like this.
I saw in One Date that one must build some arousal and one way is by simply flirting. But how exactly do I do that? Can you guys offer any proper video demonstrations showing a strong/silent/grounded/wannabe classy guy who is more restrained than a Russell Brand/Hector Castillo? I know that making women laugh intermittently isn't enough. Are there any exercises that I could do to help me?
Thanks for any help. Once I have obliterated this sticking point, everything will be great.
I saw in One Date that one must build some arousal and one way is by simply flirting. But how exactly do I do that? Can you guys offer any proper video demonstrations showing a strong/silent/grounded/wannabe classy guy who is more restrained than a Russell Brand/Hector Castillo? I know that making women laugh intermittently isn't enough. Are there any exercises that I could do to help me?
Thanks for any help. Once I have obliterated this sticking point, everything will be great.
