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Hi Guys,
I completely failed as a man, I met a chick 3 weeks ago in a club and got a SNL. I performed incredibly well in the bedroom and ploughed her for over an hour, she came countless times and she seemed incredibly interested in me. It took some time to arrange a follow-up date and after 2 weeks I thought it wasn't going to happen. After 3 weeks we surprisingly met up again.
I dropped her off after our SNL, she doesn't drive and lives about a 25-minute drive away, so I decided to pick her up. This meant we had half an hour in the car before the date started, already this was going to be a long one. For the most part it went well and including the car journey I got her home in 90 minutes. This is where everything went south.
I got locked out of my house, I had to climb a fence to go to the back where the back door was also locked, and I had to phone my parents to get in. They didn't have their phones with them, and I had to phone the house phone. Instead of coming back to a house with everyone sleeping to bring this chick back, everyone was now awake. For a man in his early thirties with an 18-year-old chick this was embarrassing.
This thrown me more than it should, and my night went from bad to worse. I done some good foreplay, I was really hard and ready to go but I struggled to get it in, I tried but after a couple failed attempts, I wasn't hard anymore. I continued with the foreplay and got hard again, I managed to get in straight away this time and quickly went for adapted missionary trying to repeat my previous performance and I went soft within a few minutes. I was totally in my own head at this point and couldn't get it back up.
I've read the articles that a chick lying in bed naked will give you time, she wants sex. However, she then added a time constraint saying she had to be home because she had work in the morning. This was a death sentence for my member and my lacklustre performance.
I had to then drive her home, another half an hour in a car together. This was extremely awkward, and I cursed myself the entire way home. She's never going to want to see me again after such an impotent performance.
I was going to wait a few days to hope she forgets but she messaged this morning saying she had a good time, and it was nice meeting me. I don't even know how I can recover from this. I will reply saying I had a good time meeting her, but honestly, I'm disgusted with myself.
Warrior
I completely failed as a man, I met a chick 3 weeks ago in a club and got a SNL. I performed incredibly well in the bedroom and ploughed her for over an hour, she came countless times and she seemed incredibly interested in me. It took some time to arrange a follow-up date and after 2 weeks I thought it wasn't going to happen. After 3 weeks we surprisingly met up again.
I dropped her off after our SNL, she doesn't drive and lives about a 25-minute drive away, so I decided to pick her up. This meant we had half an hour in the car before the date started, already this was going to be a long one. For the most part it went well and including the car journey I got her home in 90 minutes. This is where everything went south.
I got locked out of my house, I had to climb a fence to go to the back where the back door was also locked, and I had to phone my parents to get in. They didn't have their phones with them, and I had to phone the house phone. Instead of coming back to a house with everyone sleeping to bring this chick back, everyone was now awake. For a man in his early thirties with an 18-year-old chick this was embarrassing.
This thrown me more than it should, and my night went from bad to worse. I done some good foreplay, I was really hard and ready to go but I struggled to get it in, I tried but after a couple failed attempts, I wasn't hard anymore. I continued with the foreplay and got hard again, I managed to get in straight away this time and quickly went for adapted missionary trying to repeat my previous performance and I went soft within a few minutes. I was totally in my own head at this point and couldn't get it back up.
I've read the articles that a chick lying in bed naked will give you time, she wants sex. However, she then added a time constraint saying she had to be home because she had work in the morning. This was a death sentence for my member and my lacklustre performance.
I had to then drive her home, another half an hour in a car together. This was extremely awkward, and I cursed myself the entire way home. She's never going to want to see me again after such an impotent performance.
I was going to wait a few days to hope she forgets but she messaged this morning saying she had a good time, and it was nice meeting me. I don't even know how I can recover from this. I will reply saying I had a good time meeting her, but honestly, I'm disgusted with myself.
Warrior