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How to get Alfa Female...???

Drck

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Okey Dokey, most of us hear all that "Alfa Male" stuff - girls are chasing him, he can't run away from them far enough, he is picking and choosing anywhere he goes.... Just dream of every man.

But how about Alfa Female? She has ten guys lined up anywher she goes, most of them just waiting for her command like a puppy. Seriously, I've never seen anything like that in my life, she is hot, intelligent, well educated, dominant, and at the same time so sweet... I only thank God that I found PUA material some time ago, so I am informed, but even now I am having difficulties not to become one of the pups... Don't make me wrong, she hangs around them all the time, they do her work for her for free, they clean up the table after lunch, they run hapilly to the store just so she can have a good snack - but none of them get to touch even her boobs. She makes them feel great that they can be in her company, and that is it, brick wall, nothing else...

This is my 3rd encounter with such female, I totally failed the first two opportunities even though their attraction to me was really high. So this time I am trying to pump up my dominance as much as I can, trying not to care and kinda ignore her while in her presence much (while bitting my lips), and it seems to be working quite well. But honestly, I am just not one of those natural leaders, I am rather layed back style. All this dominance crap is just exhausting, but it seems to be the only thing that is working...

Any insights or good techniques how to make Alfa Female chose you over the others with low effort? Thanks!
 

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Drck said:
So this time I am trying to pump up my dominance as much as I can, trying not to care and kinda ignore her while in her presence much (while bitting my lips), and it seems to be working quite well. But honestly, I am just not one of those natural leaders, I am rather layed back style. All this dominance crap is just exhausting, but it seems to be the only thing that is working...

Any insights or good techniques how to make Alfa Female chose you over the others with low effort? Thanks!

A strong, hot, intelligent, well educated, dominant, and at the same time so sweet is a girl who often knows her value and at the same time knows how to take care of others emotions. The problem with pumping your dominance is that just like in the article "4 kinds of woman", you are more likely to clash with her from left to right. Another side of things, if you try too hard to "appear" dominant, often she will see you one way or another. She's likely experienced in the field, she knows how to navigate with people all around her and if she's good and really good, you just going to look as someone who just starting out and will likely brush you off fast, but she still treats you well though, just not more than the brick wall. However a girl who often has everything going for her all too often look for that strong, leading but rather the more silent type of guy. That doesn't mean you should always be quiet. Be more focus on what you doing rather than the environment. Generally you would want to always put your life first than the girl.

I would suggest using your rather layed back style and be more leading into asking for compliance, to do things with you. Like you said, it's just going to be exhausting with the dominance thing.

Zac
 

Drck

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Thanks man, I'll definitelly try the compliance.
 
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