T Vaunswa said:
nd if you aren't satisfied with her size, why not find a woman with larger breasts? Much easier than waiting for one to gain weight
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seriously .... If you would even think about breaking up with your
GIRLFRIEND someone who you share an emotional connection with because of her breast size.....You are a dick who does not deserve a womans love and respect. If you care about a woman emotionally you will not care about her breast size. In my opinion breaking up with your girlfriend over her breasts is only for someone with a negative view of the world and women in general.
Reasons to break up with your girlfriend if needed
http://shrink4men.wordpress.com/200...ld-break-up-with-girlfriend-boyfriend-spouse/ Notice breast size and her weight is not on the list. (girl talked about in this thread is not even overwright infact sounds like shes in shape which is a plus)
Normally I dont argue and start things like this but I thought it was needed.
What we have here gentlemen, is an opportunity to learn.
Let's start by picking apart this rash argument. Here, I'm going to fight fire with fire in order to teach a few lessons:
- Help T Vaunswa to realize some of his own faults in regards to being judgmental (and how that might effect his social situations).
- Help bystanders to understand how to properly deal with men and women who use insults which attempt to place you in a negative light.
Lets begin.
seriously .... If you would even think about breaking up with your GIRLFRIEND someone who you share an emotional connection with because of her breast size.....
Unfortunately T, you have some wild misconceptions about who I am. You are framing me as an evil man, who does things that are both illogical and unemotional. All I can see is you, someone who is calling me out and judging me for preferring to find a woman who I am attracted to in all facets, and not settling for less.
Logically, my argument makes sound sense. It takes much more effort for myself to find a woman who I find attractive rather than trying to force one to gain weight. For any men who are reading, I do suggest that you attempt to find a woman who you will be satisfied with rather than settling for less, and ultimately being unhappy.
You are a dick who does not deserve a womans love and respect.
Here is where I'm going to turn the focus on helping you, T Vaunswa. I believe that you, like most, believe that negative judgments that use moral superiority and labeling are a very bad thing which don't achieve what you would think. And you better bet that I'm not going to let you label me as a "dick". Labeling is something that I suggest you avoid; it will only build negative emotional connotations and hurt you far more than it will ever help. Making someone feel
bad for doing what they felt was right isn't going to help them. If someone believes in something, and you pass a judgment that what they believe in is bad, then you're going to have a tough time building trust and respect.
