How to get insta dates?

[Ergon]

Hello there!
I been on a bit of a difficult dry spell lately. Not only I hadn't had any girl home lately, but the numbers I've gotten from day and night game haven't really led to anything

Recently I saw a few post about members getting girls on insta dates, and a few more veteran members advised that going for insta dates for daygame was a better goal than trying to farm numbers.

I was wondering if someone could give me some advise about how to go for them insta dates, how do i suggest it, and maybe a few examples. I tried to search for articles on the blog about the topic, but the only I could find was by Ricardus suggesting Insta-dates are not really necessary, which didn't really gave me the info I was looking for. Any advise shared much appreciated

Ergon.

 

[Fuck This]

It's a matter of working into the conversation that you are on your way to do something,and she is welcome to join you...Really no different than running into your buddy at the coffee shop and going down to the gym with him to shoot hoops.

It's not a "grand gesture, prepare and plan" kinda thing. It's more of a "Let's keep talking" sort of thing.

There are Days and Times that work better for these approaches and it is usually is outside of normal dating times. Sunday morning, midday after class, between mealtimes. If they have older kids at activities, that down time before they pick them up.

 

[dcman]

Hi Ergon ,

The basic concept of an instant pick up is to build rapport quickly, make her think you are of high value, read her thoughts well enough to allow you to lead her move forward in the way you would like to. Detailing a few examples to see if it helps understand the concept. In early Jan, I was doing grocery shopping and meet this cute girl very well dressed in the store. I opened by saying that she is too well dressed to be shopping and if she likes getting attention when shopping. She was laughing and I could see she was attracted to me. When screening her I found that she had finished work and getting a few things before returning to her place. She did not have any plans for the evening and was single. I could see she wanted to continue the conversation so I told her to come and have coffee with me at a café opposite to the store. I had built sufficient rapport and attraction that she was more than happy to comply. Last week I was at a work site close to a mall. I went to the mall for lunch and found an attractive girl browsing at purses in a store. I knew she was not working for the store but I still asked if she was giving any special sales on the bag’s. She told me that she did not work there and I noticed English was not her first language. I screened her and found She arrived in this country just a week before. She was having a hard time in this city meeting people and was extremely happy to know me. I built a rapport with her easily by mentioning how I felt the same when I moved to this city and by sharing my experiences with her. It made her feel we had a lot in common. She was just passing time at the mall but I had to return to work so I could not spend more time with her. I told her that I had to return to work and asked her to meet me at 6 at the Starbucks close to where we were talking. She wanted to exchange numbers in case she was not able to meet me, but I told her my phone was at work and her number was international number so it would be best to meet up at 6.00. After finishing work, I went there and she was already at the coffee shop. In my experience having a strong visual game helps in these types of pick up’s as it seems to build attraction and rapport quickly.

I been on a bit of a difficult dry spell lately. Not only I hadn't had any girl home lately, but the numbers I've gotten from day and night game haven't really led to anything

Just a suggestion from personal experience build a rapport first and later do the number close if you need to do one. A girl would be excited and waiting to her from you if have created a strong attraction with her.

Good luck mate