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DoWhatWorks

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TLDR: Go to girly “brunches” that are hosted in big bars or small clubs and arrive as they close IE 5-6pm. Talk to girls who’ve been there since 1pm, have sex by midnight.

I did this last weekend (didn’t bother writing it up because it was a “just don’t mess up situation” with not much game used) & guys in my circle have been doing this too.

These venues have crazy ratios with horny girls and hardly any guys there as we’re typically lazy/unorganised & don’t plan activities or events.

The hardest part is finding the right brunch event, venue & time combination but once you do, it’s easy if you have game & are willing to approach.

Long Version

Sharing a potential “hack” that I’ve been field testing successfully over the last few months.

I find from intermediate onwards, you have to solve your own problems. High level guys can help but issues get more personalised so you have to tweak/find a system that works for you.

The problem

For me I was trying to solve the age old question of getting nightgame level volume without ruining my sleep. I don’t drink when out however for whatever reason I’m sensitive to when I get sleep. I feel the difference sleeping at 4am vs 1am even if I get the same 8 hours.

What I tried

I experimented with day brunches but found they were hit or miss and it tended to lean later 20s, mums and only occasional younger girls, but my ideal demographic is mid-early 20s.

By tweaking the approach to focus on bars that are *already popular* but happen to have a brunch event, you get a wide range of attractive girls who are fun & open to meeting people in the early evening.

How I found this

Wish I could take credit for this but it was my wing who was insistent that this route had potential. I went with an open mind and so far so good.

Great thing about this is that if you talk to a girl “all night” and it doesn’t go anywhere. Your back home by 11/12pm so no time wasted or routine destroyed and you have the chance to roll the dice and have a “round 2” of a standard night out if you would still like upping your chances of consistently getting a girl when out.

Why this works

When you meet girls who’ve already been drinking and/or having fun for hours, you meet them when they’re horny and ready to be pulled. Because they started earlier, the pulling hour is earlier, as early as 10pm. Added with the fact guys don’t go to these events, it’s like shooting fish in a barrel lol.

Now this is not a magic bullet. You still need game/finesse and because you’re one of the few guys you need to come across natural, fun otherwise you’ll be seen as awkward/out of place.

Sharing this in the spirit of innovation & thinking out the box which I think we could all do more of



Closing thoughts

I think we’ve lacked innovation & trying new things on this forum. I’ve been guilty of it too…

Wanted to shed a spotlight on members bucking that trend:

Big shout out to @Adventurer who’s been innovating with AI & online dating game. I don’t think he got enough credit for his post tbh.

Another massive shout out to @MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla who I can tell is on a similar journey as me thinking about how we do this shit more efficiently while maintaining/increasing quality.

He had an amazing post on going to cafes next to yoga classes after the lessons finish. Clever.

Hope to see more of these posts where we share results of new successful experiments, it’s easy to just accept what we’ve always been doing…

My final gift to the community will be sharing how I go from abundance to absolute abundance (when I finally work it out) then I’ll probably retire/disappear like yareally did.

Onwards & Upwards x
 
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Skills

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TLDR: Go to girly “brunches” that are hosted in big bars or small clubs and arrive as they close IE 5-6pm. Talk to girls who’ve been there since 1pm, have sex by midnight.

I did this last weekend (didn’t bother writing it up because it was a “just don’t mess up situation” with not much game used) & guys in my circle have been doing this too.

These venues have crazy ratios with horny girls and hardly any guys there as we’re typically lazy/unorganised & don’t plan activities or events.

The hardest part is finding the right brunch event, venue & time combination but once you do, it’s easy if you have game & are willing to approach.

Long Version

Sharing a potential “hack” that I’ve been field testing successfully over the last few months.

I find from intermediate onwards, you have to solve your own problems. High level guys can help but issues get more personalised so you have to tweak/find a system that works for you.

The problem

For me I was trying to solve the age old question of getting nightgame level volume without ruining my sleep. I don’t drink when out however for whatever reason I’m sensitive to when I get sleep. I feel the difference sleeping at 4am vs 1am even if I get the same 8 hours.

What I tried

I experimented with day brunches but found they were hit or miss and it tended to lean later 20s, mums and only occasional younger girls, but my ideal demographic is mid-early 20s.

By tweaking the approach to focus on bars that are *already popular* but happen to have a brunch event, you get a wide range of attractive girls who are fun & open to meeting people in the early evening.

How I found this

Wish I could take credit for this but it was my wing who was insistent that this route had potential. I went with an open mind and so far so good.

Great thing about this is that if you talk to a girl “all night” and it doesn’t go anywhere. Your back home by 11/12pm so no time wasted or routine destroyed and you have the chance to roll the dice and have a “round 2” of a standard night out if you would still like upping your chances of consistently getting a girl when out.

Why this works

When you meet girls who’ve already been drinking and/or having fun for hours, you meet them when they’re horny and ready to be pulled. Because they started earlier, the pulling hour is earlier, as early as 10pm. Added with the fact guys don’t go to these events, it’s like shooting fish in a barrel lol.

Now this is not a magic bullet. You still need game/finesse and because you’re one of the few guys you need to come across natural, fun otherwise you’ll be seen as awkward/out of place.

Sharing this in the spirit of innovation & thinking out the box which I think we could all do more of



Closing thoughts

I think we’ve lacked innovation & trying new things on this forum. I’ve been guilty of it too…

Wanted to shed a spotlight on members bucking that trend:

Big shout out to @Adventurer who’s been innovating with AI & online dating game. I don’t think he got enough credit for his post tbh.

Another massive shout out to @MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla who I can tell is on a similar journey as me thinking about how we do this shit more efficiently while maintaining/increasing quality.

He had an amazing post on going to cafes next to yoga classes after the lessons finish. Clever.

Hope to see more of these style posts of sharing results successful new experiments, it’s easy to just accept what we’ve always been doing…

My final gift to the community will be sharing how I go from abundance to absolute abundance (when I finally work it out) then I’ll probably retire/disappear like yareally did.

Onwards & Upwards x


@DoWhatWorks I wrote about this in Nextasft, but yes accurate..... In my area this is very popular on "sundays" but "saturdays" is good too, totally accurate (and totally forgot to put it on the end of the year reviews, the thing is i stop doing them, cause a bunch of drinking which i don't do), ratios are way better and either at times slightly higher women ratio..... they call it "brunch" and is pretty much clubs in day time, some hotels also have the pool parties (similar to vegas) in my area on Sundays
 

DoWhatWorks

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wrote about this in Nextasft, but yes accurate.....

Makes sense, I thought if anyone else has written or seen this trend, it would be you

In my area this is very popular on "sundays" but "saturdays" is good too

Yep same here in London. I prefer the less busy Saturday as it’s still good enough & I don’t risk being tired and not on form for Monday work.

the thing is i stop doing them, cause a bunch of drinking which i don't do),

I know you know this, but for the sake of lurkers, I don’t drink either. I just order soda water lime. My lay last weekend even tried my drink & said “omg that’s my favourite drink vodka soda” lol

Going after the event finishes makes it easier to not drink too because it’s less noticeable (E.g. no free drinks that you avoid getting) but there’s still enough girls around to make something happen.
 
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Skills

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I know you know this, but for the sake of lurkers, I don’t drink either. I just order soda water lime. My lay last weekend even tried my drink & said “omg that’s my favourite drink vodka soda” lol

Going after the event finishes makes it easier to not drink too because it’s less noticeable (E.g. no free drinks that you avoid getting) but there’s still enough girls around to make something happen.
no i had no idea you did not drink.... By the way that was during a time i was struggling trying to look for answers, and my wing primo having massive success on sundays "brunch" who told me....


p.s. make sure i don't forget in the end of year review...
 

Adventurer

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Thanks for the shout out :) I should make a more detailed post about my online process, it's been treating me very well in the past few months

Those brinches sound amazing, I didn't even know those events were a thing. How do you find them?

Informal networking events also attract a lot of young, educated and generally really hot girls. Not talking about big events with recruiters but smaller happy hour events for young professionals, the kind that happens in trendy places with overpriced food and beer. The problem is, once again, to find them in the first place. The only few times I could go was because friends invited me
 

alexlaguma

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Great post. Me and a few buddies of mine used to go to these bottomless brunch things in London post-Covid ... and as you say it was like shooting fish in a barrel if you are half decent with girls.

My issue is not really having ANY single friends left, so getting a group together to hit one of these brunches is not really within my gift at the moment. My main option is solo day gaming at the moment.

But I like the post and the idea of being innovative ... I'm going to think more strategically about how and when i day game, and where exactly I am targeting. The whole walking around aimlessly thing is so hit and miss. In fact I've just come back from a long unsuccessful walk. I'm going to start being more strategic with it.

Cheers!
 

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So.... how the hell do I find these events? Do you search on insta? What do I search up and where? I'm happy to give this a shot! Sounds low-key genius actually
Where the club area is you ask if they have brunches...same with bar near beaches and hotels...you can go on the club insta or web to see the events key words mimosa, wine, brunches...
 

DoWhatWorks

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So.... how the hell do I find these events? Do you search on insta? What do I search up and where?

Google “brunches in [your city]”

I’m big on music so I add “R&B” too but if you don’t care just focus on one’s targeting girls. Avoid any ones target at guys E.g. pizza & sports

on Instagram and look at:

-pictures of previous events
-stories/videos
-people tagging themselves to the event
-girls commenting with “should we go?” & tagging their friends

Focus on brunches that are strict on tickets and have multiple releases. In my city at least all the events where I got a ticket on the day were bad but the ones that sold out quickly? Solid

No researching will replace trial and error though. Keep trying different event/venue combos until you find the one that hits.

I’ve got 1 but looking for 2 more to rotate between them… It’s work but worth it IMO.

For me the biggest benefit is it’s so much more sustainable compared to nightgame & cheaper.
 

TomInHo

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@DoWhatWorks This was a super insightful post G! Always looking for more ways to make dating/seduction more efficient

Also want to point out something you just said that is super important in case some guys missed it

Google “brunches in [your city]”

I’m big on music so I add “R&B” too but if you don’t care just focus on one’s targeting girls. Avoid any ones target at guys E.g. pizza & sports

Venue selection is incredibly important for finding DTF girls. But I also think some guys may go about it the wrong way

Because to increase your chances of success you don't only want to find venues that have great girl to guy ratios... you also want to target places that have a higher ratio of girls that are into guys just like YOU

I’m big on music so I add “R&B”

You're big into R&B but you are also black. So what kind of girls go to places like that? Girls into black guys

So for example if you dress like a Thug but go to an upscale brunch that caters to socialites you will not run into as many DTF girls for you

Or if a guy that is more metro goes to an alternative joint he may also struggle finding girls that are green off rip

Devil is in the details. And if you already match the ideal and image of they type of guy the girl is into, then seductions can happen extremely fast if she is sexually available

Social Frame 101

on Instagram and look at:

-pictures of previous events
-stories/videos
-people tagging themselves to the event
-girls commenting with “should we go?” & tagging their friends

This is a great tip. And also to help the scouting process more take a look at the IG profiles of the girls that go there

Do they have pics of guys that look like you or have your same vibe? Are they following any male influencers that look like you

If you answered yes to any of the above then there is a good chance you'll be her type

IG is a great way to pre screen, and another tip is if your profile is setup right you can also send these girls a DM or respond to their stories to begin an interaction.

Because if your profile is set-up in a way that is congruent with their type, this another way to source leads online without even having to go the venue

Just run your usual online dating process and get them out on a date to seduce em
 
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Amazing strategy, @DoWhatWorks. I love this kind of out-of-the-box thinking.

I've taken girls to Sunday brunches plenty of times AS DATES. Never stuck around any longer than necessary though. Always just thought it was a great date environment, then bounce her out of there to the next venue or pull her once we've eaten / had a few drinks.

Surprised it never clicked for me, either! You take girls to these things and not infrequently they go, "Oh, I was here last weekend / I come here with my friends a few times a month / they have really good specials on blah blah blah drinks."

I thought I was being clever using it as a date spot.

Showing up later on in the day to chat up horny, boozy, sociable girls who've been hanging out with just girls for hours, wishing there were men around, and now it's just starting to get dark out... that's innovative.

Fantastic contribution!

Chase
 
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