I have had several guys gave me the feedback that I should get rid of uptalk/upseak (ie. ascending tone at the end of my words and sentences).
I have started to do some drills to try to correct it (talking about random stuff alone in my place, while focusing on not doing that) but I am not sure it makes any good.
When I listened to my recent sets, I keep spotting it again and again. It is painful to hear.
All the work that I am doing alone seem to not have any effect on it. This is depressing.
This seems to be an emotional thing and not necesserally a thing that be corrected outside of any social context. I do that when I talk to guys or girls while being uncertain about myself (probably approval seeking). It is a giveaway of how I feel around people. And this is ruining many of my interactions.
If I talk to myself in my room this is not difficult to not uptalk, but when I am in set this is almost impossible to not uptalk.
So what can I do?
Should I do focus on my mindset in sets, and with the right mindset it will automatically go away?
Or are they some more specific drills that I can do, that can help me get of ride of it like a bad habit?
I have started to do some drills to try to correct it (talking about random stuff alone in my place, while focusing on not doing that) but I am not sure it makes any good.
When I listened to my recent sets, I keep spotting it again and again. It is painful to hear.
All the work that I am doing alone seem to not have any effect on it. This is depressing.
This seems to be an emotional thing and not necesserally a thing that be corrected outside of any social context. I do that when I talk to guys or girls while being uncertain about myself (probably approval seeking). It is a giveaway of how I feel around people. And this is ruining many of my interactions.
If I talk to myself in my room this is not difficult to not uptalk, but when I am in set this is almost impossible to not uptalk.
So what can I do?
Should I do focus on my mindset in sets, and with the right mindset it will automatically go away?
Or are they some more specific drills that I can do, that can help me get of ride of it like a bad habit?
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