How to get the girls you want?

[ulrich]

Hi guys, so after many years of hard work I have finally finished building an automated source of income.
Not sure if it is going to work as expected but now I find myself with plenty of free time and I want to focus much more of my time on dating which I have neglected for so long.

I'm currently 34 years old and I feel I have done decently with girls so far... yesterday I raised my lay count to 17 and I consistently get laid on the first (70%) or second date (15%).

However, most of the times I am not that excited about the girls I hook up with.
I want to stop dating down and start dating up more consistently.

Would you give me some advice?

For reference, most of my lays come from online dating (Tinder, Facebook) or girls I meet in partys/bars.
I want to meet more professional, succesful and hotter women.

My social circles are 95% men (all male shcools, engineering major) so I can't rely on them.

Perhaps I can start taking acting or singing classes.
What do you suggest? What has worked for you?

 

[Mondo]

I’ve met the best people in my life, not just women but men too, when I’ve engage in my interests.

Some of my best friends are from when I tried starting a band with them. One of my best friends I met while traveling and we found out we were both into game.

The girls I’ve met and dated and loved, I’ve met through these friends or while traveling or being where I wanted to be most. I run into them when I‘m living my life on my terms with no compromise.

I’m not into much into bars, so one Friday night I said fuck it I’m going to the bookstore because that’s where I want to be. I met a girl there and am still dating her (we’re not very monogamous).

So if you’re into acting and singing, then go for it. But if you’re only doing it for the girls, well maybe still go for it, but find something that fires you up. It even helps your attractiveness because you come across as a man with passion in his life, and you back it up with the genuine force of that passion.

Fortune favors the bold, and it sounds like you’re ripe for some shake up. Let your mind run with your dreams man and fucking feast!