How to get with girls that have the "ice queen" personality?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I have noticed that a lot of the really attractive girls I meet are "ice queens", they are good looking but have very cold personalities. It is even more true of the kind of girls I like (attractive blondes). In the past I have mainly been with the sweet girls with the nice personality or the educated girl that was cute. I have never been able to get the popular hot girl who has a lot of girls going after her.

Would like to make progress there.

 

[PrettyDecent]

Howdy Fuji Follower,

I've only recently acquired a room to bed girls with in the last month, so I haven't had a chance to bed one of these girls yet. But from before when I was grabbing their numbers, it seemed simple enough: mimic their behavior - and make them invest.

That is, if a girl is acting aloof toward you, act aloof toward them. If a girl is busting your balls, bust her's back.

You need to show them you're socially aware, because girls like this are concerned about every micro-action that can affect their reputation (which is partly based on how difficult she is to get). She can't be seen with someone who appears socially unaware (otherwise she looks "easy").

But once you break her "wall" down, you'll find she has a much nicer side. You need to mimic that as well, but to a lesser degree.

Check these out:
What To Do When Girls Act Superior, Rude, and Aloof
How to Treat a Woman: Like a Queen, or Like a Whore?

~Nick

 

[PinotNoir]

Yes, I agree with PD. It's pretty much 3 things:

1) Have an Abundance Mentality
2) Be a "good" asshole (as Chase said and from Tropic Thunder, never go full asshole )
3) Don't maker her the prize (recent article)

It's pretty difficult because usually what happens for me is that I end up investing more on her than she does with me, which is not what you want. You have to be able to say, "Okay, you won't do this. Bye." and then start trying it on with a different girl ("trying it on" is British English slang for "flirting"; I think this phrase fits better for a non-chasing mentality of what you want to do with women, just to try them).

If you don't have #2, you'll be fine. But, if you don't have #1 and/or #3, you're screwed.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Legit, read those articles. Thanks guys, I know I can rely on this site for some quality material.

 

[coolmike]

Yes, I agree with PD. It's pretty much 3 things:

1) Have an Abundance Mentality
2) Be a "good" asshole (as Chase said and from Tropic Thunder, never go full asshole )
3) Don't maker her the prize (recent article)

It's pretty difficult because usually what happens for me is that I end up investing more on her than she does with me, which is not what you want. You have to be able to say, "Okay, you won't do this. Bye." and then start trying it on with a different girl ("trying it on" is British English slang for "flirting"; I think this phrase fits better for a non-chasing mentality of what you want to do with women, just to try them).

If you don't have #2, you'll be fine. But, if you don't have #1 and/or #3, you're screwed.

^This was on point^

As the one guy said in the 40 Year Old Virgin, dont put the p***y on a pedestal. Dont let her think shes above you in anyway because more then likely she is very insecure with herself, and that is why she has a crappy personality. If she's not giving any sort engagement with you after the first conversation, its time to cut loose and start flirting with other girls, preferably her friend. When she sees you with other girls she'll start letting her guard down and come around to you. By then you can tell her, "Too Late" Best of luck to you buddy.