How to have a threesome? (Logistical details while actually hooking up)

[tomascs]

Hey Everyone,

First I want to thank this community because I've actually gotten to the point where I have to ask this question, but I'm struggling with threesomes.

I've found several posts from girls chase on how to get to a threesome, but this is now the second time that I've had two naked girls in my bed and I'm embarrassed to say I don't really know how to handle it. How do I please two girls at once? Both times, It's been worse than sex with one person and they left before anyone finished. I'm not sure how to make it more enjoyable for everyone. I think my issue is not splitting my attention evenly and making one of the girls feel a little left out but how am I supposed to switch between them??!?

Thanks in advance for the help!

 

[Pitcher]

Have you read this article by @Teevster? It goes into some specifics.

Also, lol at putting this question in the beginner boards.

 

[tomascs]

I still think of myself as a beginner I suppose. But yes I have read that post and the vast majority of it refers to how to set up the threesome and there’s less than a few sentences on how to actually have sex with two people. He said triangle pose was cool but I was hoping someone had some more insight/positions/timing on when to switch between or how to simultaneously pleasure two people. Fingering one while kissing the other was my bread and butter but that’s where I ran out of ideas.

 

[Pitcher]

I can’t speak at all from experience because I haven’t had a 3some yet.

However, this book by Jeffy from RSD goes into some detail about his 3some tactics. He had a girlfriend who was bi though and she would help him pick up other girls. He’d have her start the real sex by going down on the 2nd girl while he fucked her from behind. He also mentions using copious amounts of Viagra to satisfy both women for an entire night hahaha.

I think the main takeaways from all the materials on 3somes I’ve read are that as the guy you have to be the conductor, you have to prioritize the girls’ pleasure, and you generally have to split your attention evenly between both of the girls. Now that doesn’t necessarily mean you have to do all of the work. The two girls can stimulate each other.

My dream would be to get two girls going 69 on each other and I could hit the one on top with some anal.

 

[Cody Lyans]

You are thinking too much of it as a sex act, that is why it is going less well. I always tell girls about guy guy girl threesomes and say it is easier to be comfortable because their is LESS pressure, the other person carries half the task. In other words you set the frame that they can feel more free.
I then place myself between them and take their hands and start with them touching me and each other if they are not totally hetro, sometimes they are. I then ask them about their fantasies and favorite ideas.
Making it less of a BAM GO TIME is the way to get used to it.
Once comfortable you can feel better about it

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Congrats on getting to the point where you have gotten girls naked and ready for a threesome!

I know it's a lot of pressure. But here's a few things that can help with the actual sex

- Have them escalate on each other first by ordering them. "Kiss each other." Let them make each other horny. Then as they're doing this, finger one of them (or both) and just enjoy the beautiful sight in front of you

- usually, you want to start fucking one girl first then quickly transition into the best threesome positions


1. You fucking a girl doggy and girl 2 gets her pussy eaten by girl 1. You can direct them, "here you come here; get on your knees." Then she does and you start fucking her. Then you tell girl 2 "lay down there so she can eat your pussy." Direct them like a porn director. Literally.

2. you fucking a girl missionary and girl 2 rides her face. if she faces towards you as she rides, you two can also make out. a true Eiffel tower.

3. them both sucking your dick. man it's a beautiful sight. It doesn't work as much in practice cuz it's hard for them to coordinate and share the dick properly at the same time. Usually this turns into one girl kissing you as the other sucks you off.

4. them in 69 and you fuck one girl then mouth fuck the other as you wish (obviously this is best done condomless, so be careful)

5. Make her a cucktress. Tell one girl to sit back and watch and finger herself as she watches. Girls love this shit.

And i assure you, you will cum at some point before completing the list. Soooo have fun haha.

Oh and it's great to cum in one girl's pussy then have the other lick it out. But ofc if you want to be safe, cum on one girl's face then have the other girl lick it up then they swap your cum.

And remember, you're ordering them directly with your words and actions to do this as you want it. Don't be afraid to be assertive.

They want to watch you command them like good little whores

Papi