Hi lads,
So I noticed that my cold approaches are improving, but I lack A VERY IMPORTANT component.. Speaking the language of feelings.
Us guys are very facts and numbers based, women are all about feelings.
Without getting into too many details, I was emotionally neglected by my parents and always had a lot of difficulty to express my emotions. It also makes it difficult for me to be romantic and to deep dive.
So a 5-10 min approach is the best and in this time I really want to get her feelings engaged rather than telling her "facts" about myself.
I read the shit out of deep dive etc articles here and I would need some more in depth stuff. I understand what I have to do, but it's really tough for me to verbalize my feelings and my romantic thoughts.
Maybe you guys can give examples of interesting stuff you tell women when you first approach? Like how do you talk about relationships for example?
On a different note, how would you sexually frame in these 5-10 mins without turning the conversation into a 30min conversation?
Do you get my point? Basically, a compressed conversation with romanticism, sexiness and a mysterious vibe.
Articles, examples of conversations, even romantic books are welcome
Cheers!
So I noticed that my cold approaches are improving, but I lack A VERY IMPORTANT component.. Speaking the language of feelings.
Us guys are very facts and numbers based, women are all about feelings.
Without getting into too many details, I was emotionally neglected by my parents and always had a lot of difficulty to express my emotions. It also makes it difficult for me to be romantic and to deep dive.
So a 5-10 min approach is the best and in this time I really want to get her feelings engaged rather than telling her "facts" about myself.
I read the shit out of deep dive etc articles here and I would need some more in depth stuff. I understand what I have to do, but it's really tough for me to verbalize my feelings and my romantic thoughts.
Maybe you guys can give examples of interesting stuff you tell women when you first approach? Like how do you talk about relationships for example?
On a different note, how would you sexually frame in these 5-10 mins without turning the conversation into a 30min conversation?
Do you get my point? Basically, a compressed conversation with romanticism, sexiness and a mysterious vibe.
Articles, examples of conversations, even romantic books are welcome
Cheers!
