Long story short. She wanted to go to the Afro party without me for some reason. As soon as we set our feet on the dance floor, she ran away and started hugging and greeting her black 'friends'. Amidst the party one more friend appeared, so she went to him without me (again) to greet him.
During the party she told me she needed to go to the restroom, so she went there. I saw that the last guy and one of his blokes were not in the room. Then I went to the corridor, visited the male restroom myself, and then hid behind the corner, waiting for her. She was away for 10 to 12 minutes, and when she left the restroom, she started moving to the right (in my direction), but as soon as she noticed me, she turned around and walked away (there are two entrances to the dance floor - one to the right and one to the left). Shame I didn't go to the ladies room to check who else was there, but after that it seemed like the girl dancing behind me started smirking at me (she was with a high as hell guy), and her female friend that approached us didn't want me in their chat (they were speaking German). No matter how I tried to get into that long conversation, they simply were laughing it off. And then my girl blamed me on that myself.
Then, in 10-20 minutes or so the black blokes appeared again. She talked to the guy in the white shirt, as he approached us, and she was asking him where he lives now. When we were dancing, she didn't want me to hug her, but as soon as the black blokes left and she hugged that guy in the white shirt again to say bye to him, we started getting touchy.
After the party I was really stressed, as I didn't sleep for two days. We were trying to have some stuff in bed, but it was mostly cuddling and kissing because of my mistrust and indifference at the time. To her plea to go down on her, I didn't agree to do that since she said to me that she was not gonna take a shower after the party (strange), but she did clean her teeth, though. And I was guessing if she had sex in the stalls, if she gave a blowjob there, or if she was simply there for a long time taking a shit (she was wearing a jumpsuit and carried a small bag with her). I asked her about the toilet visit right away, and she told me she had to figure out where to put her things as there was no hook to hang her stuff on (there was a big shelf behind the toilet, though, I checked it recently), and she also told me that she had to take her whole jumpsuit off because it was impossible to go to the toilet in it. Do women ever take a shit for more than 5 minutes, though?
While in bed, I decided to go down the rabbit whole and ask her if she ever had ONS but particularly in THAT club (it was holding parties not so often. Maybe, once in a few months. So becoming friends with so many black blokes without having sex with them is impossible, as I think), and she said 'yes'. Then, when I asked her if those were the German guys, she also said 'no', so they were black. And then she corrected herself and said that she was only making out with them. Said that she went to one guy's place but was afraid and left. She didn't make out with me on the dance floor, though, and didn't go to my place right away (suggested to do it only after a 5th or a 6th date, I refused, and then waited long for her to invite me to her place), she wanted to take things slow. When we were talking about those black guys, she wasn't looking me in the eye and she got nervous.
Then, when I asked her about that guy in the white shirt, she wasn't looking me in the eye either, and she was saying that they were simply dancing together and they were friends. She also said that she's very proud of him because he arrived to Germany as a refugee, and he learned German in 4 years and can speak it with his colleagues at the construction site, unlike some other people that couldn't learn it in a few years (she meant me, prob). While at a club, they were speaking English, though, so I can imagine what kind of level of German he has. A1, maybe?
Somehow she did pocket me at that party, so the black blokes wouldn't notice me. But I was pretty noticeable, I must say. And that guy didn't miss a chance to approach her while I was there to exchange a couple of phrases with her, so it says something.
I can also guess that she has sex with her female friends, as she could hardly orgasm from penetration and was asking me to go down on her a few times. She kind of separates all of her friends, and I never saw any of them except for her bestie. But it seemed like one of the girls from her flock was hitting on her when they were exchanging numbers. Despite that, she is quite inexperienced in sex, and all she can do is grind. She couldn't kiss, until I taught her how to do that, she couldn't give a handjob, until I showed her how to, and she doesn't even like doggy. So maybe she's just emotional cheater, after all or she didn't have sex in a long time. Or does it even matter? What's your opinion on that girl? Do you think she could easily have sex in the women's restroom? Cause the narcissist smirk she was giving to me while in bed... damn. Why did she even look at me like that? Like the Grinch.
During the party she told me she needed to go to the restroom, so she went there. I saw that the last guy and one of his blokes were not in the room. Then I went to the corridor, visited the male restroom myself, and then hid behind the corner, waiting for her. She was away for 10 to 12 minutes, and when she left the restroom, she started moving to the right (in my direction), but as soon as she noticed me, she turned around and walked away (there are two entrances to the dance floor - one to the right and one to the left). Shame I didn't go to the ladies room to check who else was there, but after that it seemed like the girl dancing behind me started smirking at me (she was with a high as hell guy), and her female friend that approached us didn't want me in their chat (they were speaking German). No matter how I tried to get into that long conversation, they simply were laughing it off. And then my girl blamed me on that myself.
Then, in 10-20 minutes or so the black blokes appeared again. She talked to the guy in the white shirt, as he approached us, and she was asking him where he lives now. When we were dancing, she didn't want me to hug her, but as soon as the black blokes left and she hugged that guy in the white shirt again to say bye to him, we started getting touchy.
After the party I was really stressed, as I didn't sleep for two days. We were trying to have some stuff in bed, but it was mostly cuddling and kissing because of my mistrust and indifference at the time. To her plea to go down on her, I didn't agree to do that since she said to me that she was not gonna take a shower after the party (strange), but she did clean her teeth, though. And I was guessing if she had sex in the stalls, if she gave a blowjob there, or if she was simply there for a long time taking a shit (she was wearing a jumpsuit and carried a small bag with her). I asked her about the toilet visit right away, and she told me she had to figure out where to put her things as there was no hook to hang her stuff on (there was a big shelf behind the toilet, though, I checked it recently), and she also told me that she had to take her whole jumpsuit off because it was impossible to go to the toilet in it. Do women ever take a shit for more than 5 minutes, though?
While in bed, I decided to go down the rabbit whole and ask her if she ever had ONS but particularly in THAT club (it was holding parties not so often. Maybe, once in a few months. So becoming friends with so many black blokes without having sex with them is impossible, as I think), and she said 'yes'. Then, when I asked her if those were the German guys, she also said 'no', so they were black. And then she corrected herself and said that she was only making out with them. Said that she went to one guy's place but was afraid and left. She didn't make out with me on the dance floor, though, and didn't go to my place right away (suggested to do it only after a 5th or a 6th date, I refused, and then waited long for her to invite me to her place), she wanted to take things slow. When we were talking about those black guys, she wasn't looking me in the eye and she got nervous.
Then, when I asked her about that guy in the white shirt, she wasn't looking me in the eye either, and she was saying that they were simply dancing together and they were friends. She also said that she's very proud of him because he arrived to Germany as a refugee, and he learned German in 4 years and can speak it with his colleagues at the construction site, unlike some other people that couldn't learn it in a few years (she meant me, prob). While at a club, they were speaking English, though, so I can imagine what kind of level of German he has. A1, maybe?
Somehow she did pocket me at that party, so the black blokes wouldn't notice me. But I was pretty noticeable, I must say. And that guy didn't miss a chance to approach her while I was there to exchange a couple of phrases with her, so it says something.
I can also guess that she has sex with her female friends, as she could hardly orgasm from penetration and was asking me to go down on her a few times. She kind of separates all of her friends, and I never saw any of them except for her bestie. But it seemed like one of the girls from her flock was hitting on her when they were exchanging numbers. Despite that, she is quite inexperienced in sex, and all she can do is grind. She couldn't kiss, until I taught her how to do that, she couldn't give a handjob, until I showed her how to, and she doesn't even like doggy. So maybe she's just emotional cheater, after all or she didn't have sex in a long time. Or does it even matter? What's your opinion on that girl? Do you think she could easily have sex in the women's restroom? Cause the narcissist smirk she was giving to me while in bed... damn. Why did she even look at me like that? Like the Grinch.
