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How do you know whether you need to READ more instead of being IN THE FIELD more?
If you keep running into the same problem over and over again, and you've been in the field trying many different strategies of overcoming it, but nothing is working. That means the piece of information of how to overcome it is NOT YET in your head, and you need to dig around some reading material to find it.
Generally what happens is you'll run into a snag, you've tried a couple different strategies to beat it, but it didn't work. Then you'll try using the SAME strategies that didn't work because you think you just didn't execute it properly.
Look, if that's the case, you probably ARE executing that part of the seduction fine, but the part right BEFORE it you are messing up.
So, example: say girls are just not kissing you when you bring them back home - so you tell yourself you probably need to build more sexual tension during the date. Well, you read over various GirlsChase articles on creating sexual tension, but even those aren't getting that passion engine started. You try and try again with the intense eye contact and long pauses, but nothing is working.
Then you decide to get your nose in the books, and stumble upon some piece of information in a section you THOUGHT you had down. In this case, it's that you're not putting any humour into the start of your conversations, and she isn't getting comfortable. Well guess what, dude? Putting her at ease is pretty much KEY to putting her into a sexual state!
And just like that, girls are kissing you when you bring them home.
Nick
If you keep running into the same problem over and over again, and you've been in the field trying many different strategies of overcoming it, but nothing is working. That means the piece of information of how to overcome it is NOT YET in your head, and you need to dig around some reading material to find it.
Generally what happens is you'll run into a snag, you've tried a couple different strategies to beat it, but it didn't work. Then you'll try using the SAME strategies that didn't work because you think you just didn't execute it properly.
Look, if that's the case, you probably ARE executing that part of the seduction fine, but the part right BEFORE it you are messing up.
So, example: say girls are just not kissing you when you bring them back home - so you tell yourself you probably need to build more sexual tension during the date. Well, you read over various GirlsChase articles on creating sexual tension, but even those aren't getting that passion engine started. You try and try again with the intense eye contact and long pauses, but nothing is working.
Then you decide to get your nose in the books, and stumble upon some piece of information in a section you THOUGHT you had down. In this case, it's that you're not putting any humour into the start of your conversations, and she isn't getting comfortable. Well guess what, dude? Putting her at ease is pretty much KEY to putting her into a sexual state!
And just like that, girls are kissing you when you bring them home.
Nick
