Ive been going out with a girl from work since the begining of september. No one at work knows were seeing each other. I talk to all the girls the same so not to make it odviuos and i am also going out with other co-workers. So this girl is kinda shy. We had sex the first time out and she told me on our 3rd time going out that she doesnt want me to think of her as a slut and I told her i didnt see her that way, because we knew each other, for month when she started in August and that it was only natural. So yesterday which was saturday she told me our manager has been hitting on her asking her out since our first time we went out. She asked me if i told him that she was easy and I told her i havent told anyone especially another guy that we are seeing each other. She said she trusted me but doesnt trust guys that much. So i decided not to have sex with her to let her know that i like her and sex is only the frosting in the cake. When i dropped her off at her house she said she wanted to watch a movie at my house on sunday. So i texted her Hey, and she replied back with a hey aswell. So i asked whats a good time to pick her up and she never replied back. Not sure why shes testing me or ignoring me. I want to show her that its not cool and give her a soft next with not texting her even if she text me first for a couple of days, from the the article https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-next-girl but its kinda hard because i see her M-F, Any advice from any guys with a similar experience. I want to let her no its not cool.
You need to create more comfort and more trust. She is now in the "bitch shame" state because you answered to her question when she asked you about the manager thing instead of creating trust and comfort.
Remember, when girls talk, they talk with their emotions and what they say don't meant at all what they are trying to tell you.
You have to talk more with people, especially girls so you can get a feeling about their emotions.
Flirt with her again and see how it goes.
Remember, when girls talk, they talk with their emotions and what they say don't meant at all what they are trying to tell you.
You have to talk more with people, especially girls so you can get a feeling about their emotions.
Flirt with her again and see how it goes.
Adi 13, Yeah I figured that. I actually treated her the same way at work as if nothing happened and we’re going out again but the funny thing is that today we were sopposed to go out but her friend had an accident and she was going to check on her after work. And she said if we can go out at 10 or so. So I texted her with a wyd around 10:15 And she ignored me again, it’s now the second time. What do you think she’s trying to do or prove. I did it to her when she drunk texted me last week at 2am. And I was with another girl. But we had plans. She’s acting childish now.
