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Hi Guys,
Recently, i found that some Youtube commenters are haters, total haters. They are just there for the sake of fucking people up. And i realize something. This happens everywhere in all walks of life, and most people have this. Some are worse than others, Some are less.
You think you are innocent, or you seen this somewhere? Let me lay out examples
- Your friends have a good conversation, You dive right in?
- Girlschase board members talking about this topic and you just dive right into something else, like a totally different topic?
- Everyone is happy in the social circle, You just want to show a "fuck up face" because the social circle has to revolve around you? maybe all the time?
- Have you ever commented on people's Youtube channel with your point(comment), without realizing what the objective of your comment is? (that's why it's out of context and uncalibrated)
- Ever watch superstars get together and one of them are not too happy in their facial expression, because the person deemed less successful becomes the better one than the rest? I am sure you have seen that.
- You like girls with miniskirts. You like girls wearing short shorts. You like girls wearing things for you but then you called that same girl, a slut because she didn't date you?
SO what do you do?
The key here is being objective, while also not judging yourself, because we all want to be somebody.
But it's one thing to be somebody and let the whole team lose. If you in a soccer game, and you let your ego be big, the team lose. If you want to mix with high value people without even trying to fit in by keeping quiet and learn, they won't let you in. If a girl in a social circle flirts with you and you know you can't get her right now, just flirt back and not let your agenda of getting her be a problem. You can try other tactics later.
There's no right or wrong in this. Young people face this often, in high school probably, but it helps so much understanding this.
Everyone has this. Occasionally you will see successful people have passive aggressive tones. You might wonder why. But it's actually very simple. They just simply get annoyed when people don't learn their stuff. and while it is true that you are the "stupid" one, but it is also another thing for the teacher/mentor to know that he is only a pointer to the truth.
Zac
Recently, i found that some Youtube commenters are haters, total haters. They are just there for the sake of fucking people up. And i realize something. This happens everywhere in all walks of life, and most people have this. Some are worse than others, Some are less.
You think you are innocent, or you seen this somewhere? Let me lay out examples
- Your friends have a good conversation, You dive right in?
- Girlschase board members talking about this topic and you just dive right into something else, like a totally different topic?
- Everyone is happy in the social circle, You just want to show a "fuck up face" because the social circle has to revolve around you? maybe all the time?
- Have you ever commented on people's Youtube channel with your point(comment), without realizing what the objective of your comment is? (that's why it's out of context and uncalibrated)
- Ever watch superstars get together and one of them are not too happy in their facial expression, because the person deemed less successful becomes the better one than the rest? I am sure you have seen that.
- You like girls with miniskirts. You like girls wearing short shorts. You like girls wearing things for you but then you called that same girl, a slut because she didn't date you?
SO what do you do?
The key here is being objective, while also not judging yourself, because we all want to be somebody.
But it's one thing to be somebody and let the whole team lose. If you in a soccer game, and you let your ego be big, the team lose. If you want to mix with high value people without even trying to fit in by keeping quiet and learn, they won't let you in. If a girl in a social circle flirts with you and you know you can't get her right now, just flirt back and not let your agenda of getting her be a problem. You can try other tactics later.
There's no right or wrong in this. Young people face this often, in high school probably, but it helps so much understanding this.
Everyone has this. Occasionally you will see successful people have passive aggressive tones. You might wonder why. But it's actually very simple. They just simply get annoyed when people don't learn their stuff. and while it is true that you are the "stupid" one, but it is also another thing for the teacher/mentor to know that he is only a pointer to the truth.
Zac
