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How to read the intentions of women who use their sex appeal to get ahead

Thinkingenigma

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I moved to LA about a month ago, and I'm loving every minute of it! I've been exploring the city, meeting new people (including a guy from the forums), and overall having an incredible time!

About a week after I moved in, I met a woman who lives on the same floor as me. We talked for a bit, and she asked me what I did. I told her about some of the commercial work I've done, the startup that I did marketing for, and the film that I am currently working on. We had a good conversation, she asked for my card, then we went our separate ways. Today I ran into her again and she offered me a job. Turns out, she's a former Playboy Playmate who is starting her own clothing line/modeling agency (for lack of a better description). Anyway, she wants me to be her personal assistant/publicist. I'd get paid a percentage of any gigs she does as well as shares from the company. Great gig, right?

Here's where things get tricky. She's the type of woman who has no qualms about using men. One look at her husband was enough to tell me that. He's a fashion photographer who makes a ton of money, but is a total schmuck. The poor guy has money pouring out his ears, but his fundamentals are terrible! He's her second husband at least, and he's bought her a $40k ring and $100k worth of custom clothing to demo her new line. I fully expect her to take him for all he's worth here in a few years.

Anyways, I have very little experience dealing with women like this in a business capacity, and my gut says she's trying to use me in some way. That said, I don't know how she would be. Everything about this seems legit, but I can't get a good read on the situation, which is what makes me uncomfortable. She's not my type, so the sex appeal wasn't really working that well on me (which is why I think she spent 30+ minutes just trying to sell me on the idea), but I'm just super unfamiliar with how these women operate in a business situation. Any thoughts?
 

Marty

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Casanova.Jr said:
The only way you'll get accustomed to dealing with these women is through experience.

I say accept the job and learn a few things from it.
I agree. "At will", no non-compete clause, and you can always resign :)

I want to move to LA! ;)
 
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Ross

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Depends.. Do you think you can outwit her?

I'm willing to bet yes, since you aren't smitten with her. She's already got a shmuck who is paying for her everything, now she needs a guy with experience to be her publicist. As long as you maintain power in the relationship and stick to your guns, it doesn't sound like that bad of an idea. It's like refusing to get into a relationship with this sexy girl who has a bunch of white-knight followers that she uses for rides and dates; you're still going to go out with her, because you know how to avoid becoming that shmuck.

The last thing you're going to have to ask yourself is whether or not you actually want to take a job like this. If the business side of things doesn't add up for you, it's probably not in your best interests.
 

Thinkingenigma

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Ross said:
Depends.. Do you think you can outwit her?

I'm willing to bet yes, since you aren't smitten with her. She's already got a shmuck who is paying for her everything, now she needs a guy with experience to be her publicist. As long as you maintain power in the relationship and stick to your guns, it doesn't sound like that bad of an idea. It's like refusing to get into a relationship with this sexy girl who has a bunch of white-knight followers that she uses for rides and dates; you're still going to go out with her, because you know how to avoid becoming that shmuck.

The last thing you're going to have to ask yourself is whether or not you actually want to take a job like this. If the business side of things doesn't add up for you, it's probably not in your best interests.


Yeah, I'm going to contact her today and ask her to send me a contract detailing what she wants from me as well as my compensation. We'll see how it goes from there.
 
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