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So I was reading another book by Juggler (PUA from long time ago). Basically in his book he says, 'be the one that girls relate to, instead of trying to relate to the girl' because youre the rock to the girl.
That's the general philosophy.
I also feel like it's a try hard when I'm in a conversation and I'm TRYING to build a commonality with her.
Ex: I'm talking to a classmate about her experiences working at a hospital. She's actually talking bout her intern experience as a hospital worker where she saw dead bodies for the first time. (medical student).
It will be weird for me to be like 'omg my friend works at a hospital too and he also saw dead bodies'.
It's just an obvious example.
Can someone talk about the art of connecting without trying to relate so try hard?
That's the general philosophy.
I also feel like it's a try hard when I'm in a conversation and I'm TRYING to build a commonality with her.
Ex: I'm talking to a classmate about her experiences working at a hospital. She's actually talking bout her intern experience as a hospital worker where she saw dead bodies for the first time. (medical student).
It will be weird for me to be like 'omg my friend works at a hospital too and he also saw dead bodies'.
It's just an obvious example.
Can someone talk about the art of connecting without trying to relate so try hard?