Hi
this has happened to at least THREE cold approaches
the girls were 18 and they did seem that they at least had some interest - but they asked my age and when i told them i was 29 years old (i don't want to start off with a lie)
these girls immediately changed their behavior and said that "i was too old for them" and that "I am flattered that you approached me, but sorry"
I tried to tease, being playful by saying that i was probably younger than them at heart and that they could try me at coffee
I tried to keep things low pressure by saying that "we could just get to know each over coffee, if it doesn't work out we go our separate ways and there's no pressure"
but both times, they did not give their numbers
at 18 years of age, they are adults - i am interested in dating and having sex with adult women, so this was really annoying and even frustrating for me
I know, women think emotionally and not logically - but i have no idea how to deal with this objection
and the truth is, i am much younger with me behavior - people and especially girls i approached often guess by looking at me that i am in my early 20s
Any tips on how i can deal with this objection of 'being too old' for a girl?
this has happened to at least THREE cold approaches
the girls were 18 and they did seem that they at least had some interest - but they asked my age and when i told them i was 29 years old (i don't want to start off with a lie)
these girls immediately changed their behavior and said that "i was too old for them" and that "I am flattered that you approached me, but sorry"
I tried to tease, being playful by saying that i was probably younger than them at heart and that they could try me at coffee
I tried to keep things low pressure by saying that "we could just get to know each over coffee, if it doesn't work out we go our separate ways and there's no pressure"
but both times, they did not give their numbers
at 18 years of age, they are adults - i am interested in dating and having sex with adult women, so this was really annoying and even frustrating for me
I know, women think emotionally and not logically - but i have no idea how to deal with this objection
and the truth is, i am much younger with me behavior - people and especially girls i approached often guess by looking at me that i am in my early 20s
Any tips on how i can deal with this objection of 'being too old' for a girl?
