FR how to respond?

[Dern]

I asked her out for hot coffee.

She texted back an hour later:

Damn you're so sweet and rad. I'd love to get to know you and hot chocolate is the most perfectest thing i dont drink caffeine so i always have to be like tea or water haha. You seem great the only thing is I just recently became manogomous with this guy i had sort of been seeing.

After 30 minutes, i still hadnt responded so she added:

So that's a problem.

How do i respond?

Im thinking:

Who told you i was looking for a girlfriend?

Would it still be a problem if i told you that im not looking for a relationship right now?

Would it still be a problem, if i told you that i am good at keeping secrets?

 

[Mr. Wes]

All three of those work and it basically will show how interested in you she is right off the bat.
Her thoughts are probably like: "well he's such a great guy. I want him as a friend on the sidelines and if things don't work out with <boyfriend>, I have him."

If she responds to any of those three in a way of disgust that "all he wants is sex", you can chase frame her with things along the lines of: "where's your mind at? "

If all else fails, prepare to move on. Don't get hung up.

 

[Dern]

I sent her:

"Who said I was looking for a girlfriend?"

She replied:

"Then let's get some hot chocolate!"

She's gonna check her work schedule and get back to me.

Hopefully, she's not thinking of me as a friend because I sent her that.

 

[Mr. Wes]

Since her relationship is really early then I think you may still have a chance to come out un-friendzoned.
Just follow everything that is being taught on girlschase and things should be fine.
Whatever great guy you were showing her before, continue doing that and also show you can lead, get her to comply, and aren't completely asexual.
Good luck
Wes.