I don't really do weekends with chicks... I guess I really am the lazy player, too lazy for that... but if I wanted to do them I would probably do it like this:
"Hey I want to travel. Come be my travel buddy. Where should we go? You pick a spot."
Then just let her pick it.
I didn't wind to siderail the avoidance style thread but I'm planning to travel for 2-4 months for the summer on a partial health tourism partial go to some awesome places I've always wanted to visit. I also really enjoy having a FWB buddy while travelling. However I've only done it once and it was "We are already travelling in similar direction, lets do it together for a while".
For parts of this trip, especially when I'm near some really sweet spots near the beach or exciting cities, I would like to try bring in a travel buddy and got some questions:
How bad is it if I'll be paying for most things? Like, there are a few girls I know who would be keen and they would never ask me to pay, but basically they broke as F so it's either I pay or they wouldn't be able to come. Due to health, I'll probably avoid hostels this time so accommodation costs would be the same anyway.
Might say - why not just focus on pulling while travelling? and my answers are 1) I wouldn't stop trying, 2) I prefer FWB to 1NS especially due to the higher probability of ED on first encounters for me 3) It's so much fun having consistent sex while on adventures 4) I would imagine even if they can come, it would be for max a weekend/ 1 week, so I'll still have more than enough time on my own. 5) I kind of want this to be my lifestyle long-term - whether single or not, to basically travel cool places for a while with a cool chick. If single, then I can inv multiple girls for different places, if in relationship then most likely monogamous.
The other thing - I'll be working remotely and take some weeks off when I'm in the best spots. Would it be a dick move if I invite a girl say for a week, and then spend half the day working haha. I'll have rented a car so she can obv go explore and then I join up with her when I finish.
Finally for setting this up, my plan is to message few girls I've had some interest in travelling together and who I like the vibe of and sending them a msg of:
Me: "What do you think of X place?"
Her: Blah blah
Me: "I'm planning to go there soon as it has this >X unique place<
Me: "Come be my travel buddy"
Her: Objection - whatever she says it's probably either time or money or both
Me: I've already booked airbnb and most experiences which are for 2 anyway so costs are covered
Her: objection
Me: I get it, it's hard to take time off work but a weekend in X place will be refreshing and imagine doing Z here (pic)
This will all be in Europe so flights and travelling times would be super low.
Any advice on doing something like this?