How to set up a FWB travel buddy?

[orkie123]

I don't really do weekends with chicks... I guess I really am the lazy player, too lazy for that... but if I wanted to do them I would probably do it like this:

"Hey I want to travel. Come be my travel buddy. Where should we go? You pick a spot."

Then just let her pick it.

I didn't wind to siderail the avoidance style thread but I'm planning to travel for 2-4 months for the summer on a partial health tourism partial go to some awesome places I've always wanted to visit. I also really enjoy having a FWB buddy while travelling. However I've only done it once and it was "We are already travelling in similar direction, lets do it together for a while".

For parts of this trip, especially when I'm near some really sweet spots near the beach or exciting cities, I would like to try bring in a travel buddy and got some questions:

How bad is it if I'll be paying for most things? Like, there are a few girls I know who would be keen and they would never ask me to pay, but basically they broke as F so it's either I pay or they wouldn't be able to come. Due to health, I'll probably avoid hostels this time so accommodation costs would be the same anyway.

Might say - why not just focus on pulling while travelling? and my answers are 1) I wouldn't stop trying, 2) I prefer FWB to 1NS especially due to the higher probability of ED on first encounters for me 3) It's so much fun having consistent sex while on adventures 4) I would imagine even if they can come, it would be for max a weekend/ 1 week, so I'll still have more than enough time on my own. 5) I kind of want this to be my lifestyle long-term - whether single or not, to basically travel cool places for a while with a cool chick. If single, then I can inv multiple girls for different places, if in relationship then most likely monogamous.

The other thing - I'll be working remotely and take some weeks off when I'm in the best spots. Would it be a dick move if I invite a girl say for a week, and then spend half the day working haha. I'll have rented a car so she can obv go explore and then I join up with her when I finish.

Finally for setting this up, my plan is to message few girls I've had some interest in travelling together and who I like the vibe of and sending them a msg of:

Me: "What do you think of X place?"
Her: Blah blah
Me: "I'm planning to go there soon as it has this >X unique place<
Me: "Come be my travel buddy"
Her: Objection - whatever she says it's probably either time or money or both
Me: I've already booked airbnb and most experiences which are for 2 anyway so costs are covered
Her: objection
Me: I get it, it's hard to take time off work but a weekend in X place will be refreshing and imagine doing Z here (pic)


This will all be in Europe so flights and travelling times would be super low.

Any advice on doing something like this?

 

[POB]

I think it's too much to ask to someone who will be mostly a sexual partner.
My take: Traveling together is reserved for serious girls, not flings.

P.S. unless she is super young and adventurous. But if she is too much of a free spirit, you take the risk of her attracting other dudes and gettig together with them while you finance the trip.

 

[ulrich]

P.S. unless she is super young and adventurous. But if she is too much of a free spirit, you take the risk of her attracting other dudes and gettig together with them while you finance the trip.

Been there, I once met a FWB girl who was traveling with a guy… she ended up flirting heavily with me and sending texts to me saying we should date and fuck.

She ended up regretting the idea and flaked at the last moment.

It was weird and uncomfortable for me… it should have been the crappiest of crap for that other guy.

 

[orkie123]

I think it's too much to ask to someone who will be mostly a sexual partner.
My take: Traveling together is reserved for serious girls, not flings.

P.S. unless she is super young and adventurous. But if she is too much of a free spirit, you take the risk of her attracting other dudes and gettig together with them while you finance the trip.

You are probably right, it is a lot of wishful thinking from my side but I have seen it go well too. The 2-3 girls I had in mind of inviting are all 20-23 and def in the adventurous group. One of them less so but I get the vibe she is relationshipy but we wouldn't ever live in the same country so if she comes, she knows it will be a short fling. There is another one who I'm not sure about - I get the vibe she just wants to travel as friends and she is my age. She can afford to travel though so if she came, we would split 50-50 so would actually make my trip cheaper.

Been there, I once met a FWB girl who was traveling with a guy… she ended up flirting heavily with me and sending texts to me saying we should date and fuck.

She ended up regretting the idea and flaked at the last moment.

It was weird and uncomfortable for me… it should have been the crappiest of crap for that other guy.

Haha had a similar experience a few years ago. This girl was with her bf at same hostel as me and straight up told me they were in open relationship as she wanted experience and was talking dirty to me while he was probably 3-4 metres away. I was uncomfortable, but at the same time something about her that was so fking hot. Wish I had gone for it but I was in a relationship. Would have probably been my easiest lay as she was very direct... Her ugly female friend even came to cockblock and she kind of ignored her lol. I think she may have been a tad autistic/adhd/crazy or just socially unaware.