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How to stand your ground towards disrespectful women?

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Space Monkey
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  • Women that are into you and don't leave, but you are not into them.
  • You are so focused on building a connection that you don't realize the disrespect a woman shows, like actively insulting you or trying to misinterpret what you said to make you look bad.
  • In a group setting the jealous one has zero boundaries doing harm to you, because she doesn't get attention and tries to sabotage her friend from being picked up.
How to stand your ground towards disrespectful women like that in an evenly hostile way without alienating other women around?

PS: I am definitely guilty of trying to make a pickup work, accepting disrespect on the way because I know it's my role as a man to show the way, which I have to develop on the fly, but in the end, it has never gone anywhere once disrespect starts from any woman. At the beginning, I use playful repartee, but after a while I realize, this is hostile but I don't want to lose my target, who is kinda stupid insofar that once I set the other girl straight, she'll leave with her as if she was oblivious to what happened. So I could aswell just go an eye for an eye and leave the interaction as a moral winner while not getting laid versus leaving as a moral loser while not getting laid on top of it. Weak and powerless men walk away, strong and powerful men stand their ground, also towards women.
 
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Chase

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@Zertifizierungsverfahren,

Same girl from your first thread?


You need to write a Field Report detailing one of your encounters with this chick and the roommate, what you tried to do to isolate the roommate, how the cockblock chick cockblocked her, what was said, etc., so guys have details to work with.

As it stands, you're asking a general question about a specific situation -- you are going to get a general answer back though because the question is general.

e.g., the general answer for, "How do you stand your ground with XYZ type of woman?" is frame control:



But I know you're looking for more specific advice from guys here, so... you're going to have to be specific.

Meantime, this whole section of Girls Chase will be helpful:


Worth checking out.

Cheers,
Chase
 
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Space Monkey
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I like "dealing-aggressive-cockblocks-what-not-do"
 

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I think you got the right idea, though I think ignoring her will always be the best solution, if she goes that much over the top to be unbearable, I think being playful which is always cool will not work out and might be percieved as pussying out the interaction, so you might have to go harsh on her to put her in the place, this definetely might backfire but if she is going out of her way that hard you will be on the losing end anyways, so you might just shut it down fully and take the loss that comes with it if her friends are gonna think bad of you after it or w/e

Though you should think if it is a far too often situation u find urself in, and adjust accordingly as why does it happen, I think with right way of a approach the girl attacking you out of blue would be seen as a social retard, and even with her friends being at the start tolerant of her inadequate behaviour with you ignoring her she would get the message before she crosses the line, ofc sometimes they might be overtolerant or smth but in general I feel she would shut herself down

Just my thoughts, I am no expert on the subject anyways
 
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