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How to suggest and execute a hotel pull?

raiden

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Hi. I'm getting slightly better at dating than I was a few years ago, but I have no logistics. My first dates are meet and greet style dates, sometimes with food or drink. I know that if I had logistics, I would try running a multi venue structured date, but I don't do that without logistics. But I'm getting second and third dates, which I wasn't getting in the past, so I guess that I should try to move things forward with some of these women. I want to try a hotel pull. I noticed that in the below article, the woman brought up the idea of going to a hotel with Alek.


After the hotel idea was suggested, it seems like there was a bit of a parlay and discussion about logistics that led to the woman getting a hotel room for them.

I'm a beginner so all I'm going to focus on is going on a date, trying to read her signals and act on them, get to know her, make her laugh and then try to pull her somewhere private. I won't consider fractionation, push pull or even compliance for the moment.

Anyway, for the pull stage I understand that you suggest something innocuous like asking her to see your artwork, or seeing the view from your balcony, or to watch some TV together. If I'm trying to go to her place, I can maybe try similar stuff but with suggestions that I know that she can accommodate. But how do I ask for the hotel? I guess that I can't ask it in an innocent way. I guess that when I ask for a hotel visit, it's going to be clear that I'm asking for a seduction opportunity. I'm meeting these women on online dating systems and going on standard dates without much night game vibe or inebriation. If it's past date one, do I suggest it in my date setup text? Do I seed it early on in a date and then return to it?

Thanks for your help!
 
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I would suggest motels are wayyyyy easier than hotels, cheaper, more efficient due to the speed of rental, unless you are in a place such as las Vegas... Hotels is extremely expensive, harder for first time pulls, more complicated due to the chech in.... Hotels are better for girls you are already seeing... Not ideal for first time pulls... With that being said i will link you later what I do for motels....

 
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