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How to tell if aloofness/distantness is busyness or losing interest?

perpetualsun

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I've been going out with this 20 year old girl for about 3 months now. Recently, due to final exams fast approaching, she has been more busy. Additionally, she had a talk with me about how she thought I wasn't responding to her enough. Since then, I've gradually tried to contact her at least once a day. I've noticed that she has become more aloof and distant over text and it seems that sometimes she doesn't really care if I cancel on her. When I do meet her, I notice a lot of interest and am able to bed her but outside of that, it seems like her texts have really gone down in tone and it can be days before she replies back.

My gut instinct is that either some other guy has entered into the equation or her interest levels have dropped a lot. I am wondering how I can tell if her schedule is the issue, her thinking she has me and I'm not longer a challenge, or a mix?
 
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