How to train myself to approach girls as soon as i see them?

[barneystin]

I’m pretty decent at cold approach but i have to consciously think about approaching women, otherwise my brain just goes, “she’s bad” and i keep on moving. Whenever I realize this and try to turn back around, i feel like i’m violating the law of least effort and i sometimes get in my head. However, there are other times where I just approach reflexively and things usually go well. How do I train myself to do this more?

 

[Will_V]

I’m pretty decent at cold approach but i have to consciously think about approaching women, otherwise my brain just goes, “she’s bad” and i keep on moving. Whenever I realize this and try to turn back around, i feel like i’m violating the law of least effort and i sometimes get in my head. However, there are other times where I just approach reflexively and things usually go well. How do I train myself to do this more?

Best ways I've found:

1. Make sure you're relaxed and present, makes it much easier to do reflexive/instinctive things, meditation helps
2. Give yourself a chance to warm up before diving right into approach-on-sight
3. Make a habit of it, your mind throws up a lot less interference against things you've done a lot of times
4. Focus on the girl and what you like about her and the feeling of wanting to get closer to her, you want to feel kind of pulled toward her rather than having to decide yes or no

All the best!

 

[Skills]

I’m pretty decent at cold approach but i have to consciously think about approaching women, otherwise my brain just goes, “she’s bad” and i keep on moving. Whenever I realize this and try to turn back around, i feel like i’m violating the law of least effort and i sometimes get in my head. However, there are other times where I just approach reflexively and things usually go well. How do I train myself to do this more?

just try the 3 second rule...

In the context of PUA (Pick-Up Artistry), the "3 second rule" refers to the idea that when you see someone you want to approach, you should initiate contact within 3 seconds of making eye contact, to avoid hesitation and appear confident; essentially, don't overthink it and just approach them quickly.


Key points about the 3 second rule in PUA:

• Overcoming hesitation:
  The main purpose is to combat the natural tendency to overthink and hesitate before approaching someone, which can be perceived as a lack of interest.
  
  
  
• Creating momentum:
  By acting quickly, you can establish a sense of forward momentum in the interaction and appear more assertive.
  
  
  
• Reading body language:
  Observe if the person is receptive to your approach with initial eye contact, which can help you decide if it's appropriate to initiate conversation within the 3-second window.

 

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

nothing really helps it as much as experience.
there are only 4 ways the daygame approach might end:

1 she is way too shy to engage - she keeps walking or suspects bullshit or scam - next!
2 she politely says that she has a boyfriend - next!
3 she is awailable - set up a date, take a number and next!
4 a 5% chance for a really negative reaction - next!