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How to treat other men around women

Xpander

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Hey,
Say you are in a social circle kind of situation with both men and women that don't know each other so well. For example a party. Say there are potential partners amongst the women. Do women take notice of how men act around other men to see who would be their choice? How would the sexy man treat other men?
 

Tyme2k

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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I have so many ideas and theories on this, I think it would be fun to write a detailed post on it. I may have some time tomorrow.

In the meantime, some things to keep in mind:

Law of the least effort
King mentality(alpha)
Center of the group/room
Deep diving/connecting then introducing people to other people
Opening girls while in the middle of talking to other guys(just a thought might actually be bad might be better to ignore women and focus on who you're talking to)
Investment, asking other males to do things for you ie: hand me that, excuse me (ask them to move even if unecessary)
Social, caring, great conversationalist.
Work the room
 

Thinkingenigma

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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In situations like that (house parties, frat parties, etc.), I'll jump right in with a girl, then I end the interaction after about five minutes or so. While I'm talking to her, I will scope the room to figure out what the hierarchy is. From there, I'll take a minute or two to introduce myself to the alphas in the room so that at the very least, they won't cock block me as much, and they might just help me out down the line. From there, I pretty much ignore any sort of hierarchy, and just go for whatever girls catch my eye. If a guy has their interest I'll usually leave them be for the time being with the intention to approach later. The only time that I will interrupt a pair like that is if the girl looks bored or uncomfortable, in which case, you can "rescue" her from an uninteresting conversation, and come across as very dominant in the process. While I'm doing this, I'm constantly deep-diving and asking for investment.

Once, while I was visiting my cousin at her school (I was presenting at a conference there), she invited me to a frat party she had been invited to. I didn't know anyone there, but within about an hour, I had super-hot girls trying to take ME home. That's when I started cursing my 8am presentation, lol.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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