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How to Win Friends & Influence People — Doesn’t Apply to Women?

Bastian

Space Monkey
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What do you think about being tactful?

Most of you already know How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie. It’s one of the most influencial self-help book of history. And I’ve seen many examples that support real life evidence & articles from GC. Especially Positive Conditioning!

I’m reading on the Saving Face part where it advices to not contradict others, say “I think” instead of “Certainty” and other “tactful” behavior.
It has place in business & maybe “High Society” but don’t women enjoy being Bossed by desirable men? Isn’t it more dominant & “Real” to say it as it is? Isn’t supporting servile tactics?

Obviously I’m not saying be a sperglord like Ackchyually meme guy. To just Fuck a joke with facts for no reason

How do you think the book applies to social circle &
pounding pussy to High Heaven?

Personally I believe it works in some environments better than others
But am curious what y’all think
 

OldGuy

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The dominance is more giving them orders than disagreeing with them; and you can let them know you disagree with them politely.
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take
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