Hey guys, I'm a 19 year-old college guy currently studying in Cambridge, MA. Up until about a year ago, I was extremely antisocial. I was completely focused on doing what I loved (classical music and science) and I don't regret that. However, as I started developing an interest in girls (albeit somewhat late in life) I realized that I couldn't get what I wanted. After finishing my first year in college, I've definitely made a few strides- I had my second kiss ever on the first day of college, my first girlfriend, my second girlfriend, and my first and only lay (which was ironically not with my girlfriends but a random person I met a few months later). Despite this progress, I am not satisfied with this for two reasons: (1) I still have tremendous approach anxiety and haven't been able to charm girls. (2) I believe my results thus far have been almost entirely the result of my looks (out of my control), my commitment to fitness, and the way I dress. These things are all external, and although I don't work out to get girls, the truth is that my working out does contribute to it. Because of this, I have decided to make it a goal for the summer to learn how two things: how to cook (I like cheap tasty food), and how to become more socially confident in a way that allows me to pull and be more dominant.
This summer I'm living on my own in an apartment in Cambridge. I'm going to start this program. However, I'm really only free to dedicate time to this endeavor on weekends since I'm working all day. Thus, my posts will be limited mostly to the weekends.
Cheers,
student94
This summer I'm living on my own in an apartment in Cambridge. I'm going to start this program. However, I'm really only free to dedicate time to this endeavor on weekends since I'm working all day. Thus, my posts will be limited mostly to the weekends.
Cheers,
student94